Achar Ke Vichar - MARRIAGES ARE MADE IN HEAVEN, SO SAVE THEM!
Dr. Sriharsha A Achar
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Achar Ke Vichar - MARRIAGES ARE MADE IN HEAVEN, SO SAVE THEM!
To keep stress out of a marriage, the first option that couples nowadays choose is to simply walk out of the relationship! No wonder, the divorce rate today is sky-high. Only a few couples think that their marriage deserves a second chance. With the levels of mutual intolerance growing, a marriage - like any other relationship - also requires help. Well, the first thing your marriage needs is the will to save the relationship. Once you have that, just follow these tips:
Bridge the Communication
Lack of communication acts as a slow poison in your relationship. The moment you quit talking to each other, your relationship starts to wear out. So, even if your schedule does not permit you to spend time with your partner, make sure you dedicate at least 15 minutes of your day to some quality conversation with each other.
Give Respect
Just because you are married to someone does not mean you can demean them whenever it pleases you. In fact, marriage is a bond which can stay strong only till respect exists between couples. Don’t try to dominate or boss around your partner. Understand that their decisions also matter
Compromise Is Necessary
It is human nature to feel weakened when it comes to compromising. But, marriage demands a different place in your life as well as a different behavior. A married couple has to take several decisions in the course of life and thus, it becomes important to find a point of consent with your partner when you don’t feel it right to agree with each other
Be Clear about Finances
You may have lived a completely independent life during your bachelor days when no one interfered in your financial matters. But you must know that things change after marriage. Your partner has the right to know about your income and your expenditures.
Respect and Love your Relatives
This may not sound too easy, especially when you do not share a cordial relation with each other’s family members. However, you will lose nothing and gain a lot if you can make an attempt to have peaceful relationships with your spouse’s family.
Keep the Romance Alive
Romance plays an important part in a marriage. So, look forward to see your spouse’s face at the end of a day, to spend time with them, pay attention to their desires, and make them feel special whenever possible.
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