"Not All Battles Are Visible, and Neither Are the Victories."

"Not All Battles Are Visible, and Neither Are the Victories."

— Brittany Burgunder

Recognizing the Power of Silent Strength on World Mental Health Day

Today the success is often measured by outward achievements, and it’s easy to overlook the quieter, less visible battles many of us face daily. Mental health struggles are unique in that they often go unnoticed, hidden behind smiles, professional facades, and the everyday busyness of life. But just because these battles aren’t visible doesn’t make them any less real—or any less significant.

As a coach and mental health advocate, I’ve had the privilege of supporting individuals through some of their most challenging times. I’ve witnessed firsthand how mental health issues like anxiety, depression, and burnout can affect even the most accomplished, high-performing people. And what stands out to me most is the courage it takes to fight these internal battles—and to claim small, personal victories along the way.

The Power of "I Am Okay"

One of the most profound realizations I’ve come across in my journey, both personally and professionally, is the importance of self-acceptance. We live in a society that prizes perfection, achievement, and the relentless pursuit of "more." But mental health doesn’t work like that. It ebbs and flows. It’s not a linear path, and sometimes, just being able to say, "I am okay" is an act of self-love and bravery.

What does "I am okay" truly mean?

It’s not about pretending everything is perfect or glossing over your struggles. Instead, it’s a declaration that you are enough as you are, in this moment, no matter how messy, uncertain, or difficult it might feel. It’s acknowledging that even though things may not be ideal, you are okay with who you are and where you are in your journey. It’s about embracing yourself with compassion, not criticism.

We need to normalize saying, "I am okay," not as a form of settling, but as a form of self-acceptance and self-love. It’s about giving yourself permission to be human. To feel. To be imperfect. And to know that no matter what you’re going through, you are worthy of love and kindness—especially from yourself.

The Importance of Self-Love in Mental Health

Self-love is often misunderstood. Many view it as self-indulgence or narcissism, but true self-love is far from that. It’s the practice of being kind to yourself in moments of hardship, rather than harshly critical. It’s the ability to recognize your own worth, even when the world around you feels overwhelming.

For those facing mental health challenges, self-love can be a lifeline. When we offer ourselves compassion, we create a space for healing. Instead of pushing ourselves to "power through" tough times, we give ourselves the grace to take things one step at a time.

Self-love is also about understanding that needing help does not equate to failure. It’s about acknowledging that you are deserving of support, and that asking for help is one of the most courageous things you can do. In fact, it’s a form of strength.

Victory Looks Different for Everyone

One of the most powerful lessons I’ve learned is that victories look different for everyone. For some, a victory might be a promotion or a major life milestone. For others, it might be getting through a day without feeling overwhelmed by anxiety. Or it might be the act of saying, "I need help" when the weight of the world becomes too heavy to bear alone.

These victories—though often unseen by others—are monumental. They represent resilience, strength, and the will to keep moving forward, even when the path is unclear. And on this World Mental Health Day, I want to honor these invisible victories. They deserve to be celebrated, just as much as any external success.

Let’s Normalize the Conversation Around Mental Health

Mental health is still surrounded by stigma in many parts of the world. Too often, people feel they must hide their struggles, fearing judgment or misunderstanding. But the truth is, mental health affects us all. It’s not a sign of weakness; it’s a part of being human.

By normalizing conversations around mental health, we can create a culture where it’s okay to not be okay. Where asking for help is seen as an act of courage, not defeat. Where self-care and self-love are prioritized, not just as buzzwords, but as essential practices in our daily lives.

As we observe World Mental Health Day, let’s remember that the invisible battles people face are just as important as the ones we see. Let’s commit to breaking the stigma surrounding mental health and creating a world where everyone feels safe to say, "I am okay," or even, "I am not okay, and that’s okay."

Today and every day, let’s support each other, check in on one another, and remind ourselves that we are enough just as we are. Let’s celebrate the unseen victories and practice self-love in the way we treat ourselves. And most importantly, let’s continue to advocate for a world where mental health is understood, respected, and supported.

You are enough. You are worthy. And remember, it’s okay to ask for help.

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