BELIEFS

For what reason some people succeed and other, for more than try, fail? some people live in wealth and abundance while others live in poverty and misery? Arnold Glasow could say "Success is simple. Do what's right, the right way, at the right time", if someone once did it chances are that We can do it again, so what are the characteristics that We can see and maybe replicate? There are some little things that we notice like enthusiasm and belief from those that had succeed, tactics and values that leaders show us consistently, smart and good advice to make steady Our strength and union and do not forget about keeping always a good communication.

Without enthusiasm for what We do how can We keep the desire, focus and expectation in any project, action or activity, however simple it may seem? We only have enthusiasm on things we believe that will bring something good even if We simply can't see anything in front of us, even if We experience fails again and again; this belief keeps our inner motivation to keep walking and doing Our decision makings based on values we think are important – when We are loyal to Ourselves we are able to have real relationships, not only socially but also, in a scope that mystics call the spiritual.

Easy times are not what bring us challenges in fact, Our beliefs and values are really tested when We need to overcome the hardest that We can find, the things that makes us face Ourselves and our limitations, paradigms and fears. There are no competition with Ourselves, only the opportunity to improve Our minds and become stronger each time that We encounter such situations, after all, failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently (H. Ford). Of course, We are all human and flawed, and excuses are common, but they just squander the opportunity for personal and professional growth, and do not use the chance to break limiting belief paradigms that keeps us poor not only in cash but also as human being.

Considering that We all have the same time on the day to do the things and that We all are likely to suffer similar situations in those time windows We should think about the correct flow of information, the problem is not in what itself happens to Ones, but in the way and how Ones perceives what happens, and especially what Ones do in feedback to what happens, and that's what makes the difference, 'cause Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how We react to it (C. R. Swindoll). We can learn how to respond to such kind of demands by looking at another's behavior using a mirroring attitude, taking advantage from others example of how to manage Our inside feelings what We think is too hot to handle. We can say that We do not have enough resources to solve something that We consider a problem but We are getting the result of Our own thinking; whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve (N. Hill), so We are responsible for what We think.

What We think, lead Us to what we feel, and what We feel will determine what We do, thus We are owners of our destiny and it do not means only that we have responsibility, but means too mainly that We have the most important right we could ever ask for, freedom. One believes things because one has been conditioned to believe them (A. Huxley), and so We grow, inside some paradigms that We bring from our early moments and We need to overcome them, so We can reprogram Our brains and focus on things that will bring Us positive results, both professional as personal;

Once We have conscious about how We process any information We should always remember these 3 concepts that lead to the success of our aspirations and desires, they are: the belief system, mental syntax and control of physiology. One must remove the "labels" placed in things, facts and events and start living by what we understand, believe and want, yet not forgetting the good sense. When We believe that We may have or do what We chose and decided, We are sending orders, both to keep the focus of want and desire in the conscious area of the mind as an unquestionable order to subconscious and, similarly, when We do not believe that We can have what you want and want, is doing the same thing, so We will always get, in short, what you believe.

Every time the focus is only on Ourselves it is not an holistic view of the reality, and simply  We are communicating with others with this limited understanding, so if We try to ask for some help we can tell just a piece of the bad lucky problem; The stories only happen to people who know how to count them (A Chekhov). Once We direct all the thinking on the right direction we create Our destiny, to grow up and make happen what we want; it is not a matter of lucky, there is no lucky, lucky is preparation meeting opportunity (O Winfrey). Preparation here means a mind selecting all the feelings and these feelings driving Us to do the right thing.

We use some filters to realize a situation, fact or event through 5 senses by a subjective representation of what and how to interpret our mind and what and how to say and hear what is. Our body responds, consequently, physical postures, physical and biochemical results. Finally we show a certain behavior influencing others, negatively or positively. It is a process and can be controlled. It is a difficulty to overcome the thought, but only thoughts cause this difficulty (Zenon). There is a lot of information that We receive from environment and We should work prioritizing and using them according to Our beliefs;  the existing reality exists on several levels and each person perceives is realized in different ways; so why not the person represent those factual realities in a way that always leave great state?

Life is a constant production of results and if One does not decide consciously to choose the results that need and want to produce, someone else will do it. We need to make choices and keep steady through our beliefs, it will be enough to ensure that We succeed, a person with a belief is equal to the force of ninety-nine who have only interests (J S Mills). Our belief should not only share good things with others but also keep good things with ourselves.