"Beyond Mother's Day: Redefining Maternal Narratives in Literature and Media"

May 12, 2024

 In many countries, including India, Mother's Day falls on the second Sunday of May every year, prompting a flood of heartfelt tributes and cherished memories shared across social media platforms. While I appreciate the sentiment behind dedicating a day to honor mothers, I've never quite subscribed to the notion that a single day is sufficient to celebrate the immense influence and significance of the women in our lives. For me, my mother's presence is a constant source of strength and inspiration, woven seamlessly into the fabric of my daily existence. Thus, while today holds no particular significance in my appreciation of her role, it does provide an opportunity to delve into an intriguing concept that transcends the confines of a calendar date.

And with this thought I write my article for today titled:

"Beyond Mother's Day: Redefining Maternal Narratives in Literature and Media"

In the rich tapestry of Indian literature and cinema, the portrayal of motherhood has undergone a thoughtful evolution, reflecting the changing dynamics of gender, identity, and societal expectations. Gone are the days when mothers were depicted solely as self-sacrificing figures confined to domesticity; like doing the dishes in the kitchen or hanging clothes to dry on the terrace; in today’s world we are witnessing a resurgence of narratives that celebrate the resilience, strength, and autonomy of women in diverse maternal roles.

Take, for instance, the works of Indian authors like @Arundhati Roy and @Jhumpa Lahiri, whose nuanced portrayals of motherhood challenge traditional stereotypes and offer a more expansive view of maternal experiences. From the complex interplay of love and loss in Roy's ‘The God of Small Things’ to the exploration of cultural identity and mother-daughter relationships in Lahiri's ‘The Namesake’, these stories resonate with readers on a deeply emotional level, transcending geographical boundaries and cultural divides.

 Similarly, in Indian cinema, we are witnessing a shift towards more authentic and diverse representations of mothers, reflecting the complexities of contemporary life. Whether it's the raw vulnerability of Vidya Balan's character in ‘Kahaani’ or the metallic determination of Sridevi's character in ‘English Vinglish’, these portrayals challenge conventional norms and celebrate the multifaceted nature of maternal love.

What's striking about these narratives is not just their authenticity, but also their impact on the way we perceive motherhood in society. In today's generation, mothers are no longer seen as mere caretakers or homemakers; they are recognized as individuals with dreams, aspirations, and agency of their own. This shift in perception is not only empowering for women but also essential for fostering respect and equality in society.

By showcasing mothers as strong, independent, and resilient figures, Indian literature and cinema are playing a pivotal role in reshaping societal norms and challenging entrenched stereotypes. The stories we tell, both in literature and on screen, have the power to shape attitudes and perceptions, and it's heartening to see a more nuanced and inclusive portrayal of motherhood taking centre stage.

In conclusion, as we continue to embrace diverse narratives and celebrate the multifaceted nature of maternal experiences, we move closer towards a society that values and respects women for who they are—mothers, yes, but also individuals with their own hopes, dreams, and ambitions. Through literature and cinema, we have the opportunity to uplift and empower women, challenging outdated notions of motherhood and paving the way for a more inclusive and equitable future. It's essential to recognize the invaluable contributions of housewives, who choose to dedicate their time and energy to managing their households and nurturing their families. Their part is equally challenging and deserving of respect, as they play a vital role in shaping the fabric of our society. However, while we've made strides in redefining perceptions of motherhood, there's still much work to be done, especially in rural areas. By highlighting the roles and experiences of women and mothers in these communities, we can ensure that their voices are heard and their contributions acknowledged, thus fostering a culture of respect and equality that transcends geographical boundaries and societal divides.

 Amidst the intricacies of life, Rabindranath Tagore's words resonate deeply.

"মা, তুমি এই বিশ্বের স্বর্গ, তুমি এই বিশ্বের সর্বস্ব।"

("Mother, you are the heaven of this world, you are the essence of this world.")

As we honour Mother's Day, let us cherish Tagore's heartfelt homage to mothers, who epitomize love, resilience, and grace in their entirety.

- Capt. Shoukat Mukherjee