Is the Bottleneck in Your Team Right Under Your Nose?

The Hero Leader: Always There to Save the Day The “hero.” The one who’s always swooping in, saving the day. Their door’s always open. They love being the go-to. Every problem? It runs through them. They are the center of every critical client relationship.

And let’s be honest—they thrive on it.

The Dopamine Hit of Being Needed

Every time someone comes in with an issue, they get that dopamine hit. It feels good to be needed. But here’s the ugly truth about that leader: they’re the bottleneck.

Their team? It can’t function without them. They’re stifling growth. Creativity’s dying, and here’s the real kicker—they’re losing their best people.

High Performers Don’t Wait for Heroes

High performers don’t stick around to watch one person play hero. They want to lead, not wait for the hero to solve everything.

But here’s the real twist: What if that leader is you?

How to Know if You’re the Hero Leader

1. Are you more focused on being needed than growing your team?

2. Are you teaching your team to think for themselves, or to rely on you?

3. How many leaders have you developed—or just followers?

4. What matters more: being the hero or building a team that thrives without you?

5. Do you give orders or develop people?

6. Admired for being smart, or respected for making others smarter?

7. Does your team flounder when you’re not there?

8. Are you avoiding deeper issues by playing hero?

9. Can you let others lead without needing to be the smartest in the room?

The Cost of Being the Hero

If any of these questions hit home, you might be playing the hero more than you realize.

If you’re not careful it will cost you:

•  Your best talent will leave

•  Your profitability will fade

•  Your team’s potential will go untapped

How to Break Free from the Hero Trap

But, how can you make a change?

First, close your door. The constant flow of interruptions from your direct reports stops you getting stuff done, and keeps them dependent on you.

Second, train in the gaps. What task are you most afraid of delegating to your team? That’s the one you need to train them on so they can take it off your plate.

Third, hold people accountable. Making a shift from “hero-ball” doesn’t mean that you check out. Instead, establish a consistent rhythm of accountability so you keep a finger on the pulse without slipping into micromanagement.

Why Outside Help Can Make a Difference

You might be thinking “easier said than done!” Habits are hard to break. That’s where getting some outside help can have a huge impact.

I coach construction executives to create teams that thrive without the leader having to be the hero.

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