Care for your relationships and nurture them

Everyone is so practical in today's world and I should ask why someone should not be practical in life but at the same time, one should not forget that it's not always about being practical. A relation stands on emotions and today people don’t care about what if a relation gets over, they just move on as nothing happened.

The next thing is that every relationship is successful if two people are compatible for each other and what compatibility today is talking to someone for hours judging them by what their thoughts are but no one looks that how other person will react when they are in an actual situation. Will the same output would be there?

Everyone has bad days and the real understanding is not when two people are just talking about love or even making but it's about can you really understand someone why he or she is quiet? He or she might want to share but is just hesitating to tell anyone?

Another aspect on which many relations are based on. It is written that it takes a long time to build trust and just a blink of an eye to break it and it is correct with the possessiveness people are possessing for their partner's trust is just now a reason to say it’s all over.

The relationships are not built by two people just meeting and falling in love and then they get married and this is all filmy stuff but the real truth there is trust, understanding, and adjustments that no one wanted. Sometimes after we are over with the honeymoon period things fall apart from each other and relation starts to fade away and if not properly taken care of they just fail.

Everyone has a lot of self-respect and confidence in them but what they do not know is the difference between self-respect and ego and that is why a relationship fails because people don’t want to adjusts. Every relation works after making a lot of adjustments and most important is that if someone can’t adjust there relation might fail,

We need to embrace their good and bad things.If you decided that yeah, this is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with,you don't have the right to get annoy at the small things they do which irritates you.If it is universally wrong,then that is a different scenario.Patience in every scenario is the key element to sustain the relationship.

Now coming to the communication part which is most important in maintaining relationships, it involves two different scenarios-when you are face to face and other is long distance,latter one being the toughest because Patience plays the most important role here.People in today's world wants to speak their opinion first without even considering what the other person has to say.

Don't you feel that the attitude of”Yes,I am the smartest being here and I am right whatever the other person says” has ruined a lot of relationships. You think you are right? Trust issues,the core love and all other things do matter but what's the use if you don’t have these two basic things?

You would have heard from lot of people that be mature .Maturity is nothing but these two fundamental qualities. Being in a relationship is lovely and a very special place.You need to keep aside all your negative traits and go for it if it's for available for you.

Consider that living a beautiful memory, sitting next to each other, your hand is on her hip and her head is resting on your shoulder looking at sunset. Both of you are getting used to each other, ignoring some differences and accepting other. One day you gave her part of attention to another girl, although you didn’t do it intentionally, but it happened anyway. She gets furious, and start firing all kind of accusations to you.You block each of them, apologises, console her, hug her, kiss her. Stay blessed ! #kishoreshintre