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I Don’t Need Anyone to Tell Me … 

        What I Am Doing Right. 

             That was the title of Rex Halsey’s presentation.

I liked it! 

In the early days of Chick-fil-A, at the annual Operator’s Seminar, each Operator (franchisee) would speak, either to the entire audience of attendees or in one of the workshop breakouts.

On Wednesday, February 20, 1980, we were at The Greenbrier Resort in West Virginia.  As always, I was looking forward to the Operator presentations.  Their speeches gave me valuable insights into their thinking. 

I wanted to know what was on their minds.

I was especially interested in the presentation of Rex Halsey, one our pioneer Operators. I liked the subject he had chosen for his presentation ... Prepare for Staff Visits. 

His title was … 

I Don’t Need Anyone to Tell Me … 

        What I Am Doing Right 

When I heard his title, I thought …

      “Yeah!  You tell ‘em, Rex!” 

He had described my attitude … exactly! 

I am a critic by nature and see everything that is wrong.   In those early days I was not hesitant about pointing out what was wrong, and I expected that corrections be made …

and made promptly. 

Rex began by recalling one of my visits to his restaurant. 

He was delivering … to me … the Message.

“Jimmy came and spent two days telling me everything I was doing wrong.”

“Then he went back to the home office and wrote me a three-page letter repeating all of it …

       plus … everything he had forgotten to tell me.”

I was stunned! 

      “Is that how he remembers my visit?”

It is not possible for me to describe … 

      the emotion that … 

          overwhelmed my spirit!

My mind was racing …

         “Is this how all Operators view me?

“I’m depending ... on them.  My performance is determined by their cooperation.  I need their support

       I must change!”

Rex’s speech was presented skillfully and tactfully.  He urged Operators to expect me, and the rest of the home office staff to point out and help them with the things they were … not doing right.

     And, to receive it as ...

          the staff’s desire to help them.

“Is this how I am teaching the staff to help Operators?

     “I must change!

“Is this how I am teaching my family?

     I must change!”

Rex had an ability that I truly appreciated.  He could be a truth-teller without being a feelings-hurter.

By the time he finished his 30-minute presentation... 

I knew I had to change and … 

     I resolved that I would change!

Later, I pondered how Rex described me as a critic, but he never mentioned the word … critic.  Of course, I realize I am a critic by nature. 

Criticism is negative! 

I wanted to be positive!  

     I needed to become an … encourager. 

I resolved …

      “I am going to change …

           From a Critic to an Encourager!”

That day Rex Halsey delivered to me a Divine Message …

    “Jimmy you must change … 

          From Critic to Encourager!” 

Years later, it was my pleasure to tell Rex how thankful I am for the message he delivered to me that day.

This article is one story of my journey …

       From Critic to Encourager!

I am still on that journey.  My expectation was that it would be difficult and burdensome. 

It has turned out to be …

      a wonderful and joyful journey!

Would you like to join me? 

I will be posting my stories from time to time. 

    They may give ... you ... some ideas.

--- Jimmy Collins 

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