Controversial Leadership - Can Boredom Be The Birthplace of Success?
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Controversial Leadership - Can Boredom Be The Birthplace of Success?

We often think of boredom as an undesirable state – a feeling of restlessness, lack of motivation, and disengagement.


And to be fair, there's a negative side to boredom that shouldn't be ignored. Prolonged boredom can lead to depression, anxiety, and a general sense of dissatisfaction with life. It can make us feel stuck, unmotivated, and like we're just going through the motions.


However, this newsletter isn't about that aspect of boredom.


Instead, I want to explore a controversial leadership perspective: how the right kind of boredom, when properly channeled, can paradoxically be the birthplace of creativity, innovation, and, ultimately, success.


Boredom Is Seen As A Lapse In Leadership

In leadership circles, embracing boredom often goes against conventional wisdom. Yet this aversion to boredom may be stifling creative thinking in the workplace.


Many leadership philosophies emphasize maximizing productivity, optimizing efficiency, and sustaining a frenetic pace of work and stimulation.


Boredom is seen as a lapse, a lack of drive or engagement that must be eliminated.


Yet, in our constantly connected world where we're bombarded with notifications, social media updates, and endless sources of entertainment, the ability to simply be "bored" can seem like a lost art.


We've become accustomed to filling every spare moment with some form of distraction, never allowing our minds to wander or embrace the stillness that boredom offers.


But what if we viewed boredom differently?


It's my personal experience that some of the most incredible ideas and innovations have been born in those moments of boredom. When our minds are free from external stimuli, we can tap into our creativity, problem-solving abilities, and introspection in ways that can catalyze breakthrough thinking.


Think about it.


How many times have you had a brilliant idea or solved a complex problem while mindlessly scrolling through your phone or binge-watching your favourite show?


These moments of clarity and insight came when your mind was allowed to wander, free from the constant barrage of external distractions.


This isn't to suggest we become complacent or inactive. Rather, it's about striking a balance - creating space for quiet reflection and exploration, allowing our minds to roam the corridors of our consciousness and connect ideas in unique ways before bringing focused energy back to tasks and challenges.


What Could Happen if Leaders Make Room for Boredom?

Embracing this mindset requires leaders to rethink entrenched attitudes about productivity and busyness. It's about making room for boredom as a creative fuel, not just an affliction to be cured. Embracing boredom with intention can open new vistas of insight, innovation, and professional growth.


Of course, boredom alone does not ensure success. It's a temporary state of constructive discomfort that challenges us to confront our own thoughts and potentials.


But the spaciousness of boredom is where the seeds of true achievement are planted - allowing us to see past the boundaries of what we know and explore new possibilities.


Tap Into The Power of Boredom

Remember, boredom is not a deficiency to be stamped out - it's a hidden strength when properly harnessed. 


It is an opportunity to tap into the limitless potential of our own cognition and unlock new pathways to meaningful success.


As a leader, I invite you to build "bored time" into your schedule. Carve out regular windows, even just 15-20 minutes, to completely unplug and let your mind roam freely.


So, the next time you find yourself feeling bored, don't immediately reach for your phone or succumb to other distractions. Lean into that discomfort.


Let your mind wander, ruminate, make new connections. You may just stumble upon the next breakthrough idea that revolutionizes your work, team, or organization.


Embrace the discomfort of stillness. You may be surprised at the creative revelations that emerge from the depths of that perceived nothingness! ✨


Being bored can be the start of being creative!



Leaders: Are you ready to elevate your leadership and tap into the power of boredom?

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About Mireille Bergraaf

Mireille Bergraaf MCC ESIA is an internationally accredited ICF Master Coach (MCC) with over 10+ years of experience in coaching, leadership, and spirituality. She specializes in empowering leaders to cultivate empathy and compassion through coaching skills.


Mireille is the founder of Dutch Leadership Development (DLD), a leadership development company that works at the intersection of spirituality and business and focuses on cultivating coaching cultures within organization.


Mireille advocates for integrating spirituality in businesses to promote empathy, compassion, and integrity in teamwork.


She guides companies to cultivate coaching cultures within their organizations. Coaching cultures promote trust, open communication, welcoming challenges for growth, embracing diversity, team engagement, supporting creativity, and thinking beyond individual interests to contribute positively to the world.


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Mireille Bergraaf MCC ESIA During the 10 days meditation, also boredom as one of the emotions passed by. And by not 'hanging in to that feeling of negativity' nice things happened.

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