Create-Joy and Break-Free from Fears controlling your life

In this article - you will learn the following

-What is courage and new definition of courage in India

-30 signs that fear is controlling your life

-55 tips on How to stop living in fear

Are you living in fear or in joy - What is controlling and driving your life - joyfulness or fear

Did you see the video of the Bangalore girl who is walking alone - and the uncountable large number of goons in a mob are harassing her.

In India now a days - new definition of courage [for many people] - doing unimaginably horrendous things to helpless and innocent person - by people in mob.

This mob displays the classic signs of having serious identity-crisis, cowardice and shame-less-ness - just like all other mobs and the mob-orchestrated incidents in India.

It should be perfectly clear who are the scared people - And also who is the real powerful and courageous one.

The dictators the world over - past as well as the current ones - are single-persons - who  manage to terrorize and create fear among masse - BUT in this they get amply supported by all the bureaucracy-administration-judiciary plus the decision makers in the regulatory institutions [most supporting the dictator are also using this opportunity to help themselves].

If you want to break-free from your inhibitions - try being like that girl - although it will require you to build and develop mindset of solid courage.

Ask yourself if you could get rid of all your fears - what type of life you would live - how beautifully different your life likely be.

And imagine if you are not scared of following your dreams - what all you could do.

Unfortunately - by the time we are able to understand the fear and how to manage and deal-with or disregard inconsequential-fears - we are either too old or facing fear by actively taking actions - just does not matter in that aspect and stage of our life.

Most of the positive emotions come from hope-faith-love-joy - like - the happiness, contentment, peace, bliss, confidence, joy and the likes.

All the negative emotions originates from - insecurity-doubt-fear-hate-anger-guilt.

You need to choose - which one you are going to allow to control your life - simply because - if you don’t choose consciously to be in the realm of hope-faith-love - automatically the negative-ones will occupy its place.

30 signs that fear is controlling your life

1.     When you feel suffocated and still can’t express what is right when you give away your rights

2.     When you let life pass you by - you are too scared to take action

3.     When you are full of regret - for not taking actions - which were in your area of influence

4.     When you are unable to take stand - for what is just and right

5.     When you embrace perfectionism.

6.     When you start compromising, adjusting with lower standards and accepting what you don’t deserve - too quickly

7.     When you procrastinate and delay taking most essential actions

8.     When you only give excuses

9.     When you blame others for things which are your fault and responsibility

10. When you feel you have to crush others - to survive

11. When you throw muck to feel good

12. When you lie and lie and lie

55 tips on How to stop living in fear [given randomly] - please also read my blog conquer you fear make fear - fear you along with do-it-yourself articles on most of the points

1.     Decide that remaining fearful is not a choice or an option for you - you have to take actions

2.     Understand that your fear responses are often out of sync with the actual danger - when you consciously confront those fearful situations- by taking actions - you will discover that you are able to manage your fears better with higher productivity and outcomes

3.     Take time out to get out and view things objectively - it's impossible to think clearly when you're flooded with fear or anxiety

4.     Ask yourself why can’t you create Halloween every day - the day when you look forward to feeling scared and afraid - and transform your feeling scared a cool thing mentally

5.     Understand most of us tend to avoid fear - as being afraid is not a pleasant experience or a positive sensation

6.     Accept the consequences of avoiding fear - is manifestation of worry, anxiety, stress and many-many more terrifying outcomes

7.     List the things you fear most

8.     Then ask yourself - why you have these fears - what triggers these fears and anxieties

9.     Determine what you can do to reduce — or completely eliminate — the level of fear in each area

10. Identify what is within your area of control - start taking actions with what you can control and let go of what you can’t.

11. If your fears are psychological or relational fears, such as fear of failure or rejection, typically stem from our own insecurities - then read my 900+ blogs on how to overcome many of your fears and anxieties

12. Identify your strengths or talents- find ways to use them more and more every day

13. Identify - recognize - challenge your own self bullshit - and then stop the making excuses

14. Let go of pre-existing ideas of doing things - all those which do not have logical explanations - others than that - you have always done them that way or that you were told that it was the only right way to do that

15. Look through your self-doubts - challenge them - and face the reality

16. Look carefully at the things you are afraid of

17. Trust yourself - look at all of the seemingly impossible times you have had to deal with. Think about all the times you asked yourself if you would make it through- somehow you did it. You may not have done it gracefully, but you did it - have faith that whatever happens in the future, you will find a way to deal with it.

18. Stop actively looking for things to fix - it only increases your anxiety

19. Don’t sweat the small stuff - stop majoring in the minor low pay-off or no pay-off priorities

20. Identify why you are enough - no matter - how you look, dress or the situation you are in - start believing that - you deserve and worthy of love, happiness, and all the good things in life - the way you are

21. Understand that no matter what is making you feel scared - you can always do something about it

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