Do good for others, it will come back in surprising ways

Do something good for yourself first. Clarify your position in life, try to discover and understand yourself first, the energy blocks you carry within your body, your desires, pain and all that, and unlock yourself. Then maybe you can start doing actual good towards people. The reason I am saying this is because if you doing something good for someone is initially a getaway for you from your own health and problems, you will be only tricking yourself. So don’t shift your attention towards good. Be good, only then you will be giving goodness from an source that is infinite.

Many people are going through stressful times around you, they are among your friends, relatives, classmates and maybe any person you know. Ask them once in a while, “How are you? ” “Are you okay?” “Is everything alright with you?” People nowadays are very good at hiding there problems, especially ones who think that if they tell other people what they are going through, they'll mock them. Internet have increased the distance between people as much as it has decreased it. In this world of virtual friends, be someone's real friend in the real world.

We are to embrace and display goodness, that is our gift to others. It is our yearning for and then practicing goodness is what transforms us into the state of being and remaining a healthy human (not remaining the animal we are all born as). Goodness being the mix of these: Transcendent love: a free gift of hoping for the virtuous betterment of the inner child-chooser within ourselves and others. It is unconditional with no expectations in return and frees us and others of our fears so we can gain confidence, understanding and skill without being angry or defensive.

Virtue: truthful, wise, logical, prudent, fearless, trustworthy, praiseworthy, self-restraint, lacking corruption, forgiving, organized, clean, caring, principled, wisely generous, humble, courageous. Wisdom: allows us to avoid traps and guides us to success using accumulated insights into what works and what doesn’t work in life and relationships. Just do what is possible for you to do..

Everyone defines good or bad in their own way. Anyone here can’t say that this is good or this is bad, it all depends on your inner satisfaction. When you feel something that you can be there for someone like helping them, listening to them, be there for them or how it might be possible for you, you will do good for others and you will feel very happy.. It’s just that you have to find out how you can do good for others and believe me it will come from your heart..

The world is in great need for love. To do good for other you don’t need to be millionaire or billionaire. you just need a good heart for that its that simple. Always remember goodness and happiness are contagious. you can simply start from your home because you cant do good for other if you didn’t even do it for your family members. if mom scolds you, please don’t return it by screaming on her rather just think why she is scolding? she could have hard day on her office or could be a bad traffic while returning home etc.

And what is more important in your life than understanding you mother. just be calm, speak delicate words in return she will definitely get over her temper state or simply her hug her instead. congrats you have changed a day full of bad mood in instance. it is not only for family members it applies to everyone. like i said goodness and happiness are contagious. if you do good to others they will do good for others. 

Follow this simple process: Write down your goals twice every day. You cannot get the things you don’t remember you wanted in the first place. Do something for the goals every single day. Success and excellence only come from what we do behind the scenes every day. Work harder than everyone else. To be the best you must work like the best. Period. Get over yourself. Get over the fact that you can do this all while staying comfortable and do the things you do not like to do and that scare you.

Believe you are the best before you are. If you do not believe it, why should anyone else? Focus All your energy on improving. You are not the best yet, so you must grow into the best by improving everything you can as much as you can. Invest in yourself. Spend the time, energy and money required for you to become the best. Do not give up. This will take longer than you think it will and will be harder than anyone told you, but if you give up, you will never be able to reach it. Cheers!