Don't let that little voice, keep you small

Yesterday, a Facebook memory popped up reminding me of my first European speaking event. It was only the second time I’d taken the stage internationally, and while I remember the excitement, the clearest memory from that time is how utterly intimidated I felt. My imposter syndrome was screaming in the lead-up to that event.

So today, I wanted to share some thoughts because I know that, at one point or another, we all experience fear, doubt, and resistance, especially when faced with a big opportunity or challenge.

The truth is, the fear never really goes away. But there’s a crucial lesson I’ve learned that I want to pass on to you: saying yes is the first step. The cliché is true—do it scared, but do it anyway! Pushing through that barrier of fear doesn’t just help you conquer it for the moment; it elevates your threshold. The next time you face a similar challenge, the fear is smaller, and your confidence is higher.

As a Results-Based Coach for over a decade, one concept that has always resonated with me is the idea that discomfort is a sign of growth. Every time you feel that unease, it’s your brain expanding, creating new pathways, adapting to new situations. So, instead of backing away from discomfort, lean into it! It means you are levelling up, breaking new ground. 

I remember once running into a speaker I greatly admired during an event in Paris. I was in awe of her poise and experience. To my surprise, she candidly admitted how terrified she was just moments before going on stage. That vulnerability struck a chord with me and validated my own trembling nerves. Her fear didn’t make her less capable—it made her human. And here’s the real secret: we all experience imposter syndrome and fear, no matter how accomplished we are. It is what you make of the experience that creates your future! You have the choice to push through or back down...

Looking back at those early days, I can see how far I’ve come and how necessary those challenges were for my growth. The path wasn’t always straightforward, but each step was essential in shaping the person I am today.

So, if you’re facing a moment of doubt or feeling unsure about your next move, take the risk. Say yes to that opportunity you don’t feel ready for. It might just open doors that could change the entire course of your career—or even your life.

Don’t let that little voice keep you playing small. Stretch beyond your comfort zone, embrace the fear, and watch as you rise to the occasion. You’re more capable than you think, and your bravery will take you places you never imagined.

FOR MORE BLOGS LIKE THIS PLEASE VISIT http://www.anelmartin.co.za/blog---coffee-with-anel