Embrace New Lifestyle if You Are Over 50

Don´t wait for retirement to live fully

Most people live in the future or the past.

They either wait for something to happen or cherish some memories from the past. They wait an entire week for the weekend, the whole year for the holidays, and wait for 40+ years to finally retire.

But the times and the economy have changed.

Most people will never materialize their dreams because they may run out of time or energy. Once they reach their milestone, it will never be as magical as they thought.

I remember being very disappointed when I became a scientist or a fashion stylist. It was nothing like what I was expected to be.

I liked the idea, but the reality completely differed from what I expected.

The same applies to relationships, friendship, marriage, or anything else.

I will discuss what we were taught and how you can benefit from the latest economic changes.

You were brainwashed by society

Society conditions you from the very beginning to follow one lifestyle model: get a diploma, go to work, get married, and have kids.

While it may work for some people, it does not apply to most because it was created in a different economy.

That old world is dying, and this lifestyle model is along with it. The education system is obsolete, and the job market is shrinking, especially for people over 40.

Sure, we all want similar things in life. We all need money and love. But not everyone wants to get married or have kids.

In Western countries, women are no longer economically dependent on men. On the contrary, they can thrive in a new economy.

Changes are good.

The reality of the rigid system

This old predesigned lifestyle model has many limitations.

The largest one is dependence on and permission from someone else to enter this system. Starting from the job application process, someone´s arbitrary judgment will decide whether you are good enough.

If you are a good fit, you will join the office team with a bunch of random people you would probably never meet.

The most important person in your life will be your boss. But what if your boss doesn´t like you (meaning you are not alike)? Your professional achievement and merit don´t really matter if you want to be promoted.

You will be promoted based on how you fit in the system, not your merit.

The office policy is keeping up with the Johnsons. Play silly games, and you will win silly awards.

The other significant limitation is being attached to a specific location.

I don´t know how about you, but living an entire life in one location would be a nightmare for me.

And I don´t want to wait until someone will allow me to travel for a week or two once a year. Hell, no!

Life is too short for that, and the world is too beautiful to be anchored in one location. Unless you build a tree house, start a permaculture farm, or do something equally exciting. Than yes!

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Happy marriage ever after?

Silver, solo, and happy? Fantabulous!

Having a bunch of kids or grandchildren? It’s equally excellent as long as you really want it.

Most people get married and have kids for all the wrong reasons.

I once attended my university anniversary reunion 15 years after my master’s degree. Many people were divorced already, and others were having affairs.

They mostly experience boredom and unattractiveness in their chosen lifestyle. What was supposed to be a dream come true is a tedious routine without any excitement.

They get kicks from having affairs, alcohol, or drugs.

That would explain why drinking alcohol is so commonly accepted. And I get it. Alcohol relaxes you when you feel miserable. I used to drink as well.

But when you change your lifestyle, you change your habits. Or sometimes the other way around.

I quit alcohol two years ago and never felt better.

Chose what goes with your lifestyle

The good news is that you can do whatever you want in life.

You do not have to follow any patterns, models, or whatever is forced on you by society.

Make your own lifestyle. Follow your curiosity and invent something the world has never heard before.

First, you must manage your finances and make enough money to support your lifestyle. The digital economy offers many options. You can start your solo business, a side hustle, freelancing, or a remote job.

The jobs market has changed dramatically, and relying on one income source from 9 to 5 is risky. So, even if you feel safe at work, it may suddenly change.

I love traveling and living abroad, but maybe you love living in the same place. That is fine.

You do do.

But what if you try something different? People who don´t try new things never find out what is best for them.

Just think about all the options. You can become a digital nomad, choose slow travel, or move abroad permanently. You will be surprised how much you can upgrade your standard of living by living abroad.

You can not grow as a person if you do not expose yourself to new experiences and learning.

Change is the only constant in life.

Conclusion

We face some profound economic and social shifts. Nothing is the same anymore.

While it may challenge many people, it is an excellent opportunity for people who want to reinvent themselves and make the most of their lives.

You can choose the money-making model that fits your personal lifestyle. If you are over 50, you have many advantages based on decades of experience.

It can be the best time of your life, and once you start, you will discover new opportunities.

Nothing is better than changing your life and starting a new chapter to fight any middle-age crisis (or other crisis).

I know because I started my writing and solopreneurship venture in my 50s.

Ready to thrive in your 50s and beyond?