Embracing ease: How to allow success instead of forcing it

Embracing ease: How to allow success instead of forcing it

Do you sometimes feel that the weight of responsibility and the pressure to succeed is suffocating?

The constant demands  of multiple tasks, making critical decisions, and managing various aspects of your business can have such a huge impact on you, your mental health and your own self belief. 

That’s why taking the pressure off yourself is not only beneficial for your mental and physical health but also for the long-term success of your business.

In this article, I'm exploring specific strategies and mindset shifts tailored for you, enabling you to find balance, alleviate stress and ultimately (hopefully!) thrive in your business.

It's all about allowing not forcing things to happen.

1) Focus on Core Competencies:

Identify the core competencies of your business and concentrate your efforts on them. Quite often, we feel pressure to be excellent in every aspect of our business.

However, by focusing on what sets your business apart and aligning your resources accordingly, you can streamline your efforts and achieve greater impact. This strategic approach allows you to excel in your niche and compete effectively without spreading yourself too thin.

2) Delegate Effectively:

As a small business owner, it's tempting to wear multiple hats and try to handle every task alone. My mum always jokes that I’m the little red hen as I always said ‘i’ll do it myself’!

On the flip side, this can lead to burnout and hinder your growth. Know what you’re good at and most importantly what you’re not good at - that’s what you 100% should be delegating, especially if it’s time consuming. By leveraging the skills and expertise of others, you not only free up your time but also create opportunities for your team to grow and contribute to the success of your business.

3) Set Realistic Goals and Priorities:

We need a bit of stretch in our lives but if it’s too much and our goals feel too large to us, we’re just pilling on unnecessary pressure.

Understand your business's limitations, available resources, and market conditions when defining these. Break down larger objectives into smaller, actionable steps and create a timeline that reflects the reality of your business. Then you prioritise. Struggling to do this? Gary Keller’s ‘The One thing’ is a great place to start. 

4) Get your own A team:

This business life can be so isolating and lonely but it doesn't have to be. Surround yourself with a network of like minded entrepreneurs and mentors, who can provide guidance, support, and valuable insights. Engaging with a community of like-minded individuals not only helps alleviate the pressure of decision-making but also provides a sounding board for ideas and challenges. Sharing experiences and learning from others can foster resilience and provide a fresh perspective on your business.

5) Practice Self-Care and Work-Life Integration:

Prioritizing self-care is crucial for your overall well-being and the sustained success of your business. Period.

Establish boundaries between work and personal life, schedule regular breaks, and engage in activities that recharge and energize you.

Make a joy list - list out the things you love doing however long they take and make time for them. You know this - taking care of yourself allows you to show up as your best self and make more effective decisions for your business.

6) Embrace Continuous Learning:

By embracing a growth mindset, something I firmly believe can help us take strides mentally, we can stay resilient against change. Coupled with continuous learning and you’ll have the edge on your competition. Stay updated on industry trends, technology advancements, and best practices. Seek out educational resources, attend workshops or conferences, and invest in your professional development. By staying ahead of the curve, you'll build confidence, adaptability, and a competitive edge, reducing the pressure to stay on top of every change. Need more help with this, let me know and we can have a chat

And finally......

7) Celebrate Milestones and Progress:

It’s all to easy to forget to do this in our constant pursuit of our business dreams. Take a breath and recognise a job done well and key milestones, no matter how small.

You’re worth it.

A balance can be found. You just need to believe in what makes you you and makes you a success. Stay in your own lane and ignore the noise.


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Carrie Eddins

Helping trailblazing , visionary business owners become recognised leading voices in the world by being in the press using a holistic , heart-based and energetic approach

1y

Phil Wickham ease is my middle name now and if it isn’t easy it then it won’t happen! Ease is so important no more forcing or hustling now for me. And I feel so much better and my business is doing a lot better ac a result! Ease and allowing so powerful aren’t they?! Great article 💥

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Kirsten Goodwin

✴️ I help female leaders overcome Imposter Syndrome and build the Mindset & Skillset for leadership success 💪 So you can feel calm, confident, capable & respected 🔥 Coach | Trainer | Speaker

1y

Finding ways to do things with ease and without driving yourself is a great idea Phil Wickham - looks really useful 😊👍

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Stefania Bartolomei

☆Founder of One of a Style l Award-Winning Style Coach | Personal Shopper | Colour Expert | Speaker ☆ 1:1 Consultations | Corporate Collaborations | In-Person & Online Services ☆

1y

Oh yes. Nothing new to me. Although i got to the conclusion that I can't be everywhere, and that I need to prioritise and also select where to be and how

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🙂 Shaileen Shah 🙂 Happiness Coach, Speaker and Trainer

Helping busy professionals rewire their hearts & minds for better productivity, happiness and wellbeing in 10 minutes a day 🙂 Habit Development 🙂Science of Happiness

1y

That's a great set of 7 strategies to use. All important and very relevant. Thanks for sharing. I apply some of them and will consider the ones I do not.

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CAROLE BOZKURT - Sales and Business Coach

Attract and convert high-value clients | Fall in LOVE with selling | Get fully booked with The Client Method | Supercharge your business growth | Supporting service based solopreneurs, coaches, consultants, designers

1y

For me it’s about focussing on what you need to do and doing what you love and the success will follow and of course success look different to different people Phil Wickham and always make it fun and enjoy yourself.

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