Embracing the Tapestry of Emotions: The Path to True Joy

Sometimes it's hard to face ourselves. We become so accustomed to presenting a version of ourselves that aligns with societal expectations, that we lose touch with our true selves. We forget our beliefs, vulnerabilities, power, fears, and joys. We lock away our emotions, believing that no one wants to witness the depth of our feelings. We fear being exposed, our raw emotions on display for all to see.

In our quest to maintain composure, we deny ourselves the opportunity to truly delve into our own inner world. We shy away from the shadows and darkness within, favouring a facade of lightness. I confess, I am guilty of this. In my pursuit of joy, I became adept at hiding from the depths of my own being.

I refused to acknowledge pain, sadness, overwhelm, fear, anxiety, weakness, despair, or shame. I deemed these emotions as unwanted intruders, and if the law of attraction held true, I believed I shouldn't allow them even a fleeting moment in my life. So, I not only became an expert at evading the shadows, but I also mastered suppressing those uncomfortable feelings in favour of perpetual joy.

At first glance, this may seem like a brilliant idea. I thought I had it all figured out, successfully avoiding anything remotely unpleasant. But, and there's always a 'but,' I'm here to tell you that this is not the way to win at life.

To truly win at life, we must go all in. We must allow ourselves to feel it all—the full spectrum of emotions. It's the only way forward.

But, here's the beauty of it—you can embrace these emotions with a sense of lightness and joy.

How?

By accepting that life, and most importantly, YOU, are a tapestry of emotions. Just as the lighter colours in a tapestry shine alongside the darker, earthy tones, the joyous emotions cannot be fully appreciated without acknowledging and intertwining them with the darker ones we so desperately try to avoid.

When we learn to welcome the shadows with curiosity, they become a source of joy in themselves. When we can fully immerse ourselves in our feelings, allowing them to be and to run their course, they become easier to release, and in turn, they transform into joy.

Furthermore, when we can hold ourselves with compassion, even during moments when we feel far from great, we discover a profound level of self-love—a true embodiment of joy.

I won't sugarcoat it; this journey is not necessarily easy. However, it becomes easier the moment you decide it is. Make the decision to go all in. Recognize that you deserve to experience the full spectrum of your being, in all its glory, regardless of the emotions coursing through you.

This is when the magic happens. This is when you find joy, even in sadness. This is when you embrace the richness of life as the incredible being that you are—living your one and only life to its fullest.

So, let us embrace the tapestry of emotions and embark on a journey of self-discovery, self-acceptance, and true joy. You are worthy, and your journey is extraordinary, no matter how you are feeling in this moment.

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