Emotional Intelligence: The Essential Key to Career Success

Regardless of your current position or the industry you work in, you need to be a good leader in order to succeed. Although many attributes make a great leader, emotional intelligence (EQ) is essential. Without a high degree of emotional intelligence, you won’t be an effective leader, and won’t be as successful. 

 You need to understand your own emotions as well as the emotions of others. This is what emotional intelligence is all about. It is crucial for all working relationships, internally and externally. 

 Emotional intelligence is the essential key to career success, regardless of how you measure it. Whether you have your eye on the corner office with an executive title or you want to have more influence in your company - it all requires emotional intelligence! 

 Historically, the “keys to the city” would open all the doors and gates within the village. This has become a metaphor and can be used as an analogy for the relationship between emotional intelligence and success. You can image your EQ as a key. It opens every door to success like increased salary, frequent promotions, more influence, and greater authority.  

Research has shown that when it comes to career success, you need emotional intelligence. In this blog post, I have highlighted the key metrics commonly used to measure career success and the research showing that emotional intelligence really is the essential key to a successful career. 

 Increased Salary 

 Do you believe if you were more successful, you would earn more money? This is how the majority of people measure career success. Many believe that the more money you make, the more successful you are.  

 Studies have found that those who have a high level of emotional intelligence also have higher salaries. A study in the Journal of Vocational Behaviour examined this is a time-lagged study over ten years. The researchers measured the emotional intelligence of 126 college studies in hopes of predicting their salaries a decade later. In addition to measuring their EQ, they also controlled for general mental ability, personality, and GPA. They followed up with the students 10 to 12 years later, post workforce entry, and recorded their salary. They found that emotional intelligence had a significant, positive effect on pay. The researchers concluded that “emotional intelligence helps individuals acquire the social capital needed to be successful in their careers.” 

So, just how much more do they make? Several studies have looked at this. One study found that those with a high EQ make about $29,000 more a year than those with low EQ. According to TalentSmart’s survey of over 42,000 people, you can add $1300 to your annual salary for every point increase in emotional intelligence! The author of the study concluded, “the road to higher income is paved with the quality of your relationships. People earn more money as they become more emotionally intelligent”. 

 Frequent Promotions 

 Another standard metric for measuring career success is promotions. The speed at which you climb the corporate ladder, get that corner office or have a C-level executive title may be what you are working towards. 

 The truth is, technical skills become less important each time you get promoted and work your way up. When it comes to promotions, emotional intelligence is critical. In a Career Builder survey, 71% of 2600 HR professionals and hiring managers said they value EQ over IQ. Further, 75% said they are more likely to promote an employee with high EQ and a low IQ rather than a person with a high IQ and low EQ. 

 Even LinkedIn is spreading the word. They believe your IQ doesn’t get you promoted; your EQ does. In a report, they shared an important piece of advice for anyone chasing a promotion -  why you got your current position is not why you’ll get promoted. If you joined your company in an entry-level position, you might have been hired for your technical skills, but these same skills won’t be what gets you that promotion. Promotions require more leadership skills.  

 Regarding a promotion, about two-thirds of the difference in job performance is attributed to emotional intelligence. This difference becomes even more pronounced in more senior leadership roles. 

 More Influence 

 Are you able to inspire your team to work hard on a big proposal? Do you complete negotiations with ease? If so, you have influence. Influence is considered a social competency. It goes beyond power and authority as you don’t need to have a high job title to have an impact. 

Having influence is all about establishing relationships. 

 One of the pillars of emotional intelligence is relationship management. This is a set of interpersonal skills that help you inspire and motivate others while building stronger relationships. When you excel at this, you have more influence. You are considered a “natural leader” as you can quickly gather support from others, and create engaged teams that are highly motivated and eager to work. 

 An older but still widely popular book in business is Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence People. Essentially, Carnegie describes emotional intelligence. The term emotional intelligence didn’t become as popular until Daniel Goleman, an author and EQ expert, started using it in his work. Goleman also agrees that to have more influence; you need emotional intelligence. According to Goleman, those who have influence are persuasive and engaging so they can build buy-in from others. They can inspire them to put their best efforts forward. 

 Greater Authority 

 For some people, career success is measured by the amount of power they have. With each rung of the corporate ladder comes greater authority. This may mean you are in control of a much larger budget, making more critical business decisions, or have greater control in hiring. Leaders have power, and to be an effective leader, you need emotional intelligence. 

 More than ever, CEOs, executives, and senior management teams need emotional intelligence. Daniel Goleman found that up to 90% of the high performers in the C-suite have a high EQ. In addition to making you more successful in this role, you’ll need it to get there. 

 Research conducted by the Center for Creative Leadership found that one of the most significant derailments for those aspiring to be executives was their inability to establish interpersonal relationships and adapt to change. These abilities are big parts of emotional intelligence. This was also found by Egon Zehnder International, a research firm that studied hundreds of seniors executives. Their research found that a high level of emotional intelligence deems executives as more likely to succeed. They believed that a high EQ was the best predictor for success in roles with greater authority. 

 Leadership experts and business media outlets are now calling for businesses to hire CEOs with emotional intelligence. And if they aren’t hiring, they need to invest in developing the EQ of their CEOs and leaders. 

 Accessing the Key to Career Success 

 Emotional intelligence increases confidence, makes you a more effective communicator, a better negotiator, builds stronger relationships, empathetic, and builds upon your skillset. This all results in a better leader and employee, which will help get you that salary increase or promotion. 

 If you are looking to reach greater levels of career success, you should start by understanding the four pillars of emotional intelligence: self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, and relationship management. 

 Begin with self-awareness by learning more about yourself and your own emotions.  Research has found that when you or a team member aren’t self-aware, you’ll cut a team’s success in half! And if you think you are already self-aware, consider taking another look.  

Roughly 95% of people believe they are self-aware, but in reality, that number is between 10 to 15%. 

 To bring out the best in others and be more successful, you need to bring out the best in yourself. The more mindful you are, the more you can manage your emotions and respond in the best way you can.  

 You should spend time trying to understand others. Your social awareness is your ability to recognize emotions in others and understand human dynamics. To increase this, ask questions and pay attention to how people may be feeling. Try to empathize and connect by offering support and trying to put yourself in their position to understand their perspective. When you can empathize with another person, you are better equipped to build relationships.  

 Books and, more importantly, training can help increase your emotional intelligence significantly. When you increase your EQ, your relationship with your coworkers, team, and boss will improve.  The more successful you become, the more you need EQ. Professor at the Farmer School of Business at Miami University of Ohio, Joseph C. Rode, said that “emotional intelligence should be more relevant to success – and salary – at higher organizational levels, where leadership becomes a relatively more important part of one’s job.”  

 As you can see, the essential key to career success is emotional intelligence. You have that key inside you; you just need to learn how to use it and unlock the doors to success.  

 About the Author

Robert Moment is an Onboarding Expert, ICF Certified Executive and Emotional Intelligence Coach and Author of bestselling books , High Emotional Intelligence for Managers and Executive Coaching.

I help CEOs and HR Professionals eliminate high turnover costs hiring new executives by reducing the Onboarding Executive Failure Rate to 0%.

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