Entrepreneurs need more safe spaces to discuss mental health
Back in 2018, I lost a fellow entrepreneur and dear friend to suicide. She was a single mom, successful, she traveled, she socialized, she smiled in pictures, she dressed well and looked amazing. The last time we communicated, she said "I'm feeling better." Two weeks later she was gone.
In 2019, I started creating The Conquer Network to bring together online entrepreneurs, in a service-based business, who want to make make an impact in the world, make more money, while still maintaining their mental wellness. I'm a licensed therapist and coach for women entrepreneurs who want to breakthrough business anxiety, beat burnout and managing workaholism.
Since my entrepreneur journey in 2015, I had never found a space where I could talk about my life and my business, or express that I was experiencing anxiety or depression, without being ridiculed or shamed.
You know "toughen up" and "get mentally strong" all the sayings that actually make you feel shameful, helpless, and alone.
This online space was designed to talk about our #mentalhealth and #entrepreneurlife, in a way that’s focused, valuable, and––most importantly––all our own.
We celebrate unhealthy business models and lifestyles
There is still a lot of #mentalhealthstigma and unhealthy practices in business and entrepreneur settings, that add to business anxiety, burnout, and workaholism.
We celebrate and glorify. Not sleeping, working til you drop, being a pushy salesperson.
In the Netflix documentary "Inside Bills' Brain" about Bill Gates, he laughs, about one-time licking TANG powder off his hands so he could keep working without stopping to eat (TANG is an icky orange drink mix).
We need to redefine success and reinvent entrepreneurship
Mental health conversations are even more necessary NOW, as we see what's going on with #simonebiles and #naomiosaka.
72% of entrepreneurs are directly or indirectly affected by mental health issues compared to just 48% of non entrepreneurs. That's according to a study by the National Institute of Mental Health. 49% of entrepreneurs deal with mental health issues directly while only 32% of others experienced them
There’s no question that inviting mental health to the table every time, we discuss business is a different approach.
And a new one, which may have a bit of a learning curve. Most entrepreneurs still feel shy about this.
I could have just created a course or program, but I wanted to build a community, a network that will grow globally.
Entrepreneurs experience lots of emotions on their own
Are you a women-owned online business? There may be times you feel overwhelmed by your never-ending to-do list?
Or you're struggling to "keep up" with the next big deadline, the next launch, the next meeting, the next event? This makes you feel anxious, depressed and leads to workaholism.
Sometimes going from employee to entrepreneur, pulls you way out of your comfort zone and requires a new way of thinking, a business mindset, a growth mindset.
You don't make time for yourself. Many service-based entrepreneurs are constantly doing things for everyone, but themselves.
Sometimes solopreneurs, feel really isolated and alone because there are no co-workers to become work friends, but where do you find business friends?
Besides investing in a business coach or business program, you also need to invest in cultivating mental wealth for business, so you can sustain success and achieve some work-life balance.
Do you have a safe entrepreneur support system for self-care?
We need to learn to cultivate mental wealth for business because, entrepreneurship is a marathon, not a sprint.
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