Episode #204: Telling Your Child About An Autism Diagnosis with Rob Gorski

Rob Gorski, widely known as The Autism Dad, started his blog over a decade ago as a private space to document his family’s journey with autism. Today, it’s evolved into a business, podcast, and vital resource for autism families. Through his work, Rob shares insights on communicating about autism, helping families understand their children, and breaking down stigma.

Discussing autism with kids—whether autistic or not—requires sensitivity and simplicity. Autistic brains are wired differently, and kids don’t need complicated explanations. Small, clear insights can help them understand their differences without feeling isolated. Rob emphasizes that openness empowers autistic kids and avoids the distrust that can stem from hiding autism as a “taboo” topic. Every child is unique, and there’s no single right approach to this conversation.

To foster understanding, Rob suggests choosing a neutral, calm environment where children feel safe, sharing small pieces of information over time rather than a single, in-depth talk. Parents know their kids best, and trusting their instincts is essential. Mistakes are part of the journey—what truly matters is a willingness to adapt, grow, and create a supportive space for their children.