Friendship is a promise made by heart

Friends, when we talk of friendship I cannot just chose one so I have included ten promises you should never break. If you’ve found a person you can truly see yourself growing old with, you’re going to need to make some promises to them. It’s important that you keep these promises throughout your relationship in order to continue building a trustful and loving foundation throughout both of your lifetimes. Among others, the following vows are meant to show just how much you care for your significant other, and how dedicated you are to your relationship.

Because of Karma, and that’s why I’m so sharp witted, and I have a brain, and heart that’s gold. I listen, and I observe, and then I decide what I do. I either think you’re full of shit, or I use my wits, and I obey. When you don’t keep a promise, you’re disloyal, and that’s a problem with the heart, and also you’re not bright in the brain. To confine in someone is to learn to trust, and love myself, and respect, and love other’s as well. I have humanitarian concerns. I am not vain, and mean. I’m honest, and realistic.

And I need a reason to be mean, and my heart is pure. I have no problems with people I have never met in real life, and never gotten to know. Sometimes when you betray someone, someone will betray you. You tell someone that someone is harassing someone, and they don’t like the person. You’ve just proven you don’t like them either by not caring about the person you’re suppose to be a father to. You’re a liar, a snake never to be trusted. But here I have got a list of some pointers what friends should promise each other.

First one is promise to listen. Relationships are built around communication, and communication is a two-way street. If you want your voice to be heard, you must also be sure to listen to what your mate has to say. Be open-minded, and try to see things from their perspective. Doing so will open the door to true understanding.

Secondly I promise to learn. Relationships are hard work, especially if you’ve never been in a serious one before. There is a lot to learn about how to treat a person you love, how to live with them, and how to grow together. You’ll make mistakes along the way, but as long as you learn from them together, your relationship will continue to flourish.

Thirdly I promise to let you be you. Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you have to change who you are. And neither does your significant other. Don’t try to change them into the person you wish they were. You wouldn’t be in love with them if they were different. Let them continue on their path, and stick by their side at all times.

Fourth one is I promise to let you grow. As each person in a relationship is still an individual, you should both be free to grow as people, too. Don’t hold the person you love back from following their dreams. Know that they want to grow in order to better support you, and have faith that their hard work and long work days will eventually pay off for your family.

Fifth one I promise to live for us. Remember, you’re now living for a family, not just yourself. You shouldn’t make major decisions without consulting your significant other—but that’s not a bad thing. Discuss your wants, needs, hopes, and dreams together, and build your relationship upon a common ground.

Sixth one is I promise to find time. No matter how hectic life gets, you should always find time to spend with the one you love. Don’t get complacent in your relationship. Even after a long day of work, you should always want to take your mate out for ice cream or a movie. Don’t let time slip away; it’s the one thing you can never get back.

Seventh one is I promise to work as a team. Mix up the chores. Do the food shopping. Wash both cars. Don’t ever think of a task as “my job” or “my wife’s job,” “men’s work” or “women’s work.” You’re in this together; act like it.

Eighth one I promise to save things for just us. After a while, some experiences just aren’t the same without your significant other next to you. You’d never watch your favorite TV show without him or her, and they’d never go to your favorite restaurant without you. Some things are special because they’re only meaningful when you’re together.

Ninth I promise to care about your interests. When you love someone, you’ll find yourself having fun at times you thought you’d be bored out of your mind. Buy tickets to a Broadway show, even if you would never go to one without her. Bring him to a football game, even if you don’t even understand the rules. You’ll end up making memories that will last a lifetime.

Tenth one I promise to show you off. Never get tired of making it clear to the world that you love this person. Hold their hand in public, and introduce them to new friends and coworkers as “my wife” or “my husband” or “my fiancé.” Talk about them constantly, even when you know it’s driving other people nuts. They’re worth it. Cheers!