Fueling yourself in Failure

The journey of life gives all shades that includes Failure but nobody like to embrace it .How  we define is failure or success  gives us more clarity in next journey ,what happens when we face failure is  , It shatters our Self image - Failure rock on our self image and belief ,We started believing   our skills and attitude is not right to become successful and we started counting all our failures in life and started feeling worth less and get into non action and it will lead to more damage

 How to Over come

Yourself ,

@ First accept the reality and take time to settle

@ ones you are emotionally settled , take time and write in a piece of paper on all achievements in your life upto date – Small and big

@ Start thinking objectively what  might went  wrong and what actions went wrong and think realistically how much the failure effected your long term plan and life in Big canvas

@ Some times its better to think the goal what we want to achieve still carry same energy or you better take different direction

Your Family ,

@ Your family might effected badly because of your failure ,please take time and explain to them the real situation and there might be stress and anger since it effects their plans ,please listen their point of view and don’t get into aggressive mode or reactive

@ Explain them the new action plan and support you are looking

@ Listen their feedback and ensure the risk mitigation plan carefully

Your Mentors

@ Please reach your mentors as soon as possible to strengthen you emotionally and its important because those are the people knows and believe on you and your capabilities

@ Get feedback on what might went wrong on your action plan and execution

@ Present them the new action plan and ask them to guide

@ If possible seek their support in connecting right people who can support your new action plan