Goal Obsession: The Ultimate Flaw that Demolishes Success
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In the pursuit of success and self-improvement, setting ambitious goals has long been hailed as a key driver of achievement. However, as the intensity of our aspirations grows, there exists a delicate line that separates healthy ambition from the potential dangers of goal obsession. While being obsessed with goals may fuel exceptional outcomes, leaders also need to be aware of its potential pitfalls - and learn how to strike a balance between relentless pursuit and mindful self-awareness.
What is Goal Obsession?
Goal obsession refers to a state in which one becomes excessively fixated on achieving a specific goal - often to the detriment of their overall mission or well-being. Its greatest problem lies in the potential to lead us down a tunnel vision path, overlooking the broader context and long-term consequences.
While ambition and determination are essential traits of success, an unhealthy obsession with achievements is what causes many to lose sight of the bigger picture, neglecting other important aspects of their lives or the organization they represent.
This destructive behavior is not limited to any specific group; that said, it is commonly observed among successful people, especially those who are driven and highly achievement-oriented. Success makes us addicted to the feeling of accomplishment - as a result, we push ourselves to set even more ambitious goals, sometimes at the expense of our own health, relationships, or even ethical principles.
For example, a talented and promising young athlete might strive to win a specific championship. In their relentless pursuit, they push themselves to the limit, sacrifice proper rest and expose themselves to more injuries. In this case, their determination to succeed in a single event prompts them to neglect their long-term development of a sustainable career.
Goal Obsession - The Ultimate Interpersonal Flaw
In its broadest form, goal obsession is the force at play when we get so wrapped up in achieving our goal that we do it at the expense of a larger mission.
Marshall Goldsmith
In his bestseller 'What got you here won’t get you there', renowned executive coach - Dr. Marshall Goldsmith - goes over a list of 21 bad workplace habits that hold us back from reaching greater heights in life. The first 20 are common flaws that most high achievers possess - including: winning too much, passing judgment, failing to give proper recognition, etc.
The last one - ‘goal obsession’ - is a behavior that Goldsmith places a significant emphasis on (in fact, it is analyzed within a whole separate chapter in his book). This habit pertains to those who become so fixated on achieving grand accomplishments - such as securing major deals, attaining prestigious positions, or meeting ambitious company targets - that they disregard everything else around them.
Goal setting and careful planning provide us with the motivation needed to effectively work towards success. However, excessive focus on a specific objective that leaves out other aspects of life is definitely not a good thing.
Imagine running towards a destination. When you are moving too fast, your eyesight automatically turns into ‘tunnel vision’, which means you can only see the final destination - but are not able to observe your surroundings.
The same thing applies to goal obsession. When you are too fixated on achieving a goal, you are likely to ignore other elements, which may help you to visualize the bigger achievement.
The Dangers of Goal Obsession
Forgetting about the greater mission
Being overly fixated on a specific goal may make us lose sight of the larger purpose of the organization. As a result, we lose the ability to make decisions that align with the overall vision - and may prioritize short-term gains over long-term sustainability.
Consider this scenario: A marketing manager responsible for a beverage system sets the ambitious goal of enhancing brand awareness. However, being prudent with time and resources, the manager opts for a shortcut rather than investing in substantial social media and public relations endeavors. Regrettably, this choice involves deliberately sparking controversy with a customer regarding the product's quality, leading to increased attention for the brand, but at a high cost.
Consequently, the campaign's outcome is that numerous consumers now associate the brand with inferior quality, tarnishing its image in the market. Despite achieving short-term recognition, the manager failed to grasp the broader perspective of brand image, which now suffers from a negative perception.
Turning into a robot
Excessive focus on goals often results in a mechanical and rigid approach to work. Specifically, we become so goal-driven that we neglect flexibility and adaptability, reducing our ability to understand and respond to others' emotions accordingly. Social interaction has no formula, it’s something that you can only feel.
Most of the time, goal-obsessed people are too focused on achieving targets - which causes them to forget all about human factors.
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Creating unnecessary stress
Placing a deadline on your vision and being enthusiastic about its realization is commendable. However, we must be mindful that such intense focus on goals might inadvertently build up stress for those working alongside us.
While some may find inspiration in our high standards, in a team or corporate setting, this may cause others to feel an unspoken pressure to match our level of dedication. Consequently, a divide may emerge among team members, as the unspoken expectations permeate the workplace, affecting the dynamics and cohesion among employees.
Developing 'hurry sickness'
"Hurry sickness" as described by San Francisco cardiologists Dr. Meyer Friedman and Dr. Ray Rosenman, entails an incessant struggle to achieve more tasks in less time, accompanied by symptoms such as:
Renowned author Edward Hallowell, in his work "CrazyBusy: Overstretched, Overbooked, and About to Snap!" asserts that working at breakneck speed for prolonged periods hinders productivity rather than enhancing it. The constant rush induces the stress hormone cortisol, linked to heart attacks and strokes, while exhaustion from perpetual haste results in more workplace errors. Over time, continued disregard for the body's limits leads to declining performance.
You change... for the worse
The relentless drive to achieve an ever-increasing amount within a limited timeframe has a profound impact on one's personality. Gradually, we may find ourselves becoming less sensitive, increasingly impatient, prone to easy anger, and failing to demonstrate empathy towards others.
This incessant pressure also takes its toll on your energy levels, leaving you feeling perpetually exhausted and emotionally detached, despite faithfully adhering to your exercise routine. Eventually, you change for the worse.
It is goal obsession that holds us back from visualizing long lasting changes
Reasons for Goal Obsession
Marshall Goldsmith mentions in his book several classic conditions that often accompany goal obsession - such as great follow-through, terrific discipline, and an intense focus on reaching a specific objective. While these qualities may seem positive on the surface, he also warns that if coupled with a short-sighted goal, they may actually bring about a recipe for disaster.
In this context, "great follow-through" refers to the ability to complete tasks and projects successfully, while "terrific discipline" denotes the dedication and self-control to stay on track. When these traits are combined with "awesome goal obsession," it suggests a relentless fixation on achieving a particular goal without considering the broader implications or potential consequences.
The key problem lies in having a "short-sighted goal", which implies that the goal being pursued is narrowly focused and lacks consideration for the bigger picture or long-term consequences. In this scenario, people may become so single-mindedly focused on their immediate objective that they overlook important factors, neglect other essential aspects of their life or work, or even compromise ethical principles in pursuit of the goal.
As a result, while goal obsession may lead to impressive short-term results, it also breeds long-term issues, such as strained relationships, burnout, or reputational damage.
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