Helping Black Boys Thrive: 10 Ways To Support Your Child's Mental Health During The Back To School Season

10 Ways to Support Your Child's Mental Health During the Back To School Season

As summer winds down and the Back To School season approaches, it's not uncommon for both parents and children to experience a mix of excitement and anxiety. For children, the transition back to school can trigger a range of emotions, from anticipation to apprehension. As parents, it's essential to be aware of these emotional shifts and provide proactive support for your child's mental health during this time. 

Here are ten practical ways you can help your child navigate the Back To School season with confidence and resilience:

1. Foster Open Communication: Encourage your child to express their feelings about going back to school. Create a safe space where they can share their excitement, worries, or any other emotions they may be experiencing. Validate their feelings and let them know that it's okay to feel a mix of emotions.
2. Establish Routines: Help your child gradually transition back into a school year routine by establishing consistent sleep schedules, meal times, and study habits a week or two before school starts. This will ease the shock of sudden change and make the first week back smoother.
3. Address Worries and Anxieties: If your child expresses concerns about specific aspects of school, like social interactions, academic pressure, or new teachers, address them directly. Talk through their worries, offer reassurance, and brainstorm potential solutions together.
4. Encourage Healthy Coping Mechanisms: Equip your child with healthy ways to manage stress and anxiety. Teach them relaxation techniques like deep breathing, mindfulness exercises, or physical activity. Encourage them to engage in hobbies and activities they enjoy to de-stress.
5. Foster Connections: Help your child reconnect with friends before school starts. Arrange play dates, virtual hangouts, or group activities to reignite social connections and ease the transition back to a classroom environment.
6. Set Realistic Expectations: Work with your child to set achievable goals for the school year. Avoid putting excessive pressure on them to excel in every area. Instead, focus on celebrating their efforts and progress, fostering a love of learning, and building confidence.
7. Prioritize Sleep and Nutrition: Ensure your child gets enough sleep and eats nutritious meals to support their overall well-being. Adequate sleep and a balanced diet are crucial for cognitive function, emotional regulation, and energy levels.
8. Limit Screen Time: Set limits on screen time, especially in the evenings before bed. Excessive screen exposure can disrupt sleep patterns and negatively impact mood. Encourage your child to engage in offline activities like reading, spending time outdoors, or engaging in creative pursuits.
9. Collaborate with Teachers: Reach out to your child's teachers at the beginning of the school year. Share any relevant information about your child's strengths, challenges, or learning styles. Maintain open communication throughout the year to ensure a collaborative approach to supporting your child's academic and emotional well-being.
10. Model Healthy Habits: Children often learn by observing their parents. Demonstrate healthy coping mechanisms, stress management techniques, and positive self-talk. Your example can have a powerful influence on your child's own approach to managing challenges and emotions.

Remember…every child is unique, and their back to school experience may vary. Be patient, understanding, and supportive. By prioritizing open communication, establishing routines, and addressing any concerns, you can help your child navigate the back to school season with confidence and set the stage for a successful and fulfilling academic year.

The HYPE (Helping You Purposefully Excel) Healing Circle is an evidence based program for Black males in middle school and high school.This program is designed to meet the unique needs of Black males to help them thrive in school and life.

It will be held virtually on July 23, 2024 at 3:00 pm EST.

One of the topics we will discuss is: Overcoming the Back To School Blues and Preparing for a successful school year.

Participants will learn how to create SMARTA Goals for a successful school year, stress management skills, time management skills, and more. They will also learn how to manage the anxiety of transitioning from their summer break to back to school.

Special Bonus!: You will also receive a free parent session (a $50 value!) with your purchase of this HYPE Circle!

The parent session will take place virtually immediately after this HYPE Circle ends at 4:00 pm EST. During the parent session you will learn how to support your child’s mental health during Back To School Season and beyond. You will also create your own SMARTA Goals to ensure your child’s success during the school year.

This parent session will also have a Q & A so you can receive the support you need to help your son succeed during this school year.

Extra Special Bonus!: You will also receive a free one month (August 2024) membership (a $49 value!) in the new HYPE Club!

The HYPE Club is an online membership program that will support the social-emotional learning, mental health and overall well-being of Black male youth in grades K-12.

It will also offer parent support through monthly parent sessions and a private online community for parents of Black boys.

The HYPE Club will launch on August 1, 2024.

Click here to sign up for the HYPE Circle.