Here’s how to ask your network for help and actually get it
We all know that an important way to accelerate your job search is to be introduced to people who are senior and may be hiring managers. However, we also know that whilst promises are made in the moment, follow through and actually making the connection happens all too infrequently. So, what can you do to encourage your network contacts to actually deliver on what they say they’ll do in the moment?
Beyond recruiters: drawing on your professional network
First, let’s be clear about who we’re talking about. We’re not talking about recruiters, who are often world-class at ghosting! Rather, this is all about those people who you’d consider to be your network contacts and who you now want to draw on for help by means of introductions to relevant leaders and decision makers.
Our belief is that the vast majority of these people are great people who, in the moment of making the commitment, really do intend to make that introduction. Yet, so often, nothing materialises in practice. This is something that consistently comes up as an issue for my coaching clients.
This lack of follow through on promises made could be for any number of reasons. Possibly, they forget or procrastinate because life simply gets in the way. Other times it might be because, on reflection, they don’t want to call in a favour.
Let’s consider the first of these points:
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How to best approach a network contact
There are, without a doubt, ways of approaching a network contact that will maximise your chances of success:
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I truly believe that the people that you ask for help from are typically well meaning and, in the moment, do want to help you. But after your conversation is over, life comes at them full throttle and the new task they agreed to isn’t urgent. Understandably, it’s not as important as others so it just drifts down the to-do list and doesn’t get done. Anything that you can do to encourage them to take action ASAP to help you on your job search path might just be the critical thing that makes all the difference.
If you’re currently in the midst of a job search and would benefit from some guidance on how to draw on your network to bring you one step closer to your next dream job, let’s talk.