How to coach a problem you can't fix?
And then your team member comes up with an unfixable challenge. A desired solution that, realistically, won’t happen.
This might be something like:
What then?
What do you do when you try to encourage your people to solve their own challenges, but their solutions aren’t realistic, and you know they won’t or can’t happen.
Case in point:
There it is… The unsolvable challenge.
When coaching a team member who’s only solution to a problem is a fix that you know won’t or can’t happen, we have to change the focus of the solution.
There are ultimately two responses to a challenge – change how you do it, or change how you view it. If something isn’t working you can try doing something different, or, you can keep doing the same thing, and change your attitude toward it.
Action – If you can get more resources (more people, more budget, more time), then do that. If you can do things differently, then do that.
But if you can’t change your action, you’re challenged to change your reaction. Sometimes a change in perception will do the trick.
Reaction – If the deadline is the deadline, the budget is the budget, and the resources are the resources, then changing your action is not an option. In this case the coaching needs to shift to the reaction.
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To shift the focus of reactions to a new perception, try questions like:
The more you coach your team, the more they will bring unfixable challenges, and the better you will become as a coach.
With the Action/Reaction strategy in your toolkit, there will never be an uncoachable challenge, even if there is an unfixable problem.
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