How to Lead a Team When the World is On Fire

The past two years have been an enormous challenge. I feel like I have an anvil tied to my ankle in a swimming pool, and every time I pull my chin above the water, the pool somehow gets a little deeper.

One step forward, two steps back.

We continue to run, thinking we’re making progress, but we slowly realize we’re on a treadmill.

Leading a team in this environment is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do in my career, and I’ve been at it for 20 years.

So, how do we do it?

A few things really matter when we get into tough times like this. I’ll show you how to lead your team in the best possible way when everything feels ridiculously tough.

Acknowledge the hardship

There’s nothing worse than a manager that reeks of toxic positivity. They may not acknowledge that the world is on fire at all. They may ignore it and hope you will too, or they brush over it like it’s no big deal. Either way, that behavior is unhelpful.

Name what is going on in the world and let your team know that it is really hard.

“We all know that the world is currently on fire. This is really tough for all of us. Please let me know if you need anything extra during these unprecedented times.”

Naming the hardship breaks the tension around it and allows people to have feelings about it. You’re letting them know that having feelings about stuff is okay when life gets tricky. You're letting them know that we're in this together.

Break the rules

If there is ever a time to be more flexible, this is it.

Was someone ten minutes late? No biggie. Did they make a mistake in their work? It’s okay.

There’s nothing you can do in my store that I can’t undo. It’s all fine.

Let someone go home early without repercussions. Give someone an extra break. Have a chat that’s not work-related or world-on-fire-related. This brings a sense of normalcy to the day and makes everyone feel a little better.

Share a laugh.

Stand up for your team in front of others

If you crumble in front of a customer or in front of a person with a higher title than yours, you will lose all credibility with your team. They will not trust you to keep their best interest at hand.

When COVID first hit our store, new protocols were put in place, and people yelled at us all the time.

One man got mad that we had plastic on our pin pads and yelled at my 17-year-old cashier. When I caught what was going on, I walked over. The customer left for a moment but would soon return.

The cashier’s eyes welled up with tears as she told me how rude he was. I let her go to the backroom for a break and I took her place at the register.

The man came back, and I finished the transaction. He seemed confused that I was a different person, but I didn't indulge his confusion. I simply told him what would happen next and let him know why his card wasn’t working. He didn’t yell at me because I’m an adult.

I finished the transaction quickly, said very few words, and got him out of the store.

Stand up for your people and protect them at all costs. Do not let anyone abuse them for any reason. Always do this, but when the world is on fire, it’s even more critical.

Lead side by side

Work alongside your team if you can.

Yes, I’m the store manager, but I’m also a cashier. I run shipment to the floor, climb ladders, and clean bathrooms. I do everything because I’m the store manager.

My title means nothing. It doesn’t mean that I’ve paid my dues and now get to sit behind a desk. It means that the well-being of the entire store rests on my shoulders. That is a privilege and a huge responsibility.

When I work side by side with people, they learn from me. They hear how I answer the phone and how I tell people no. This allows me to coach in the moment. I get to show them an easier way. I often catch people doing stuff that takes more effort because they don’t know the shortcuts.

When you lead from the front, you get to show them the shortcuts.

Lead with Heart

Leading teams is a delicate balance.

You have to make sure everyone abides by the same rules, however, you have to treat people a little differently — everyone has a unique personality. I know who I can rib a little and who I can’t.

I have one guy who talks too much. He knows this, and we’ve worked together for three years, so I can tell him, “You’re driving me bonkers! You’re talking too much.” Someone else may be offended by that, but I know he won’t be.

All of this is even more delicate when the world is on fire.

Everyone is trying to cope in their own way. We also need to be mindful, as leaders, that we don’t bring our own sh*t into the equation. That’s a hard thing to do.

If it comes crashing down on you one day, it’s okay to leave the building. Give yourself the same compassion that you do your team, and they will respect you for it.

Nobody’s perfect, and if you can acknowledge difficult times with your team and let them in, they will show up dedicated and ready to support you.

Yes, we all work for a company that wants us to meet goals and do our part to move the business forward. I get that. But at the end of the day, we’re all just humans trying to do our best.

Support the humans on your team no matter what. When the world is on fire, they will show up and try their best.

This article was originally posted here in January 2022 as we navigated COVID.

I'm reposting it as we continue to live through unprecedented times.

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