How to leverage your military experience to find your life purpose

Believe it or not, your military experience can actually help you discover your life purpose in this next phase. But how?

Your military experience may seem a million miles away from what you’re currently trying to do with your life, but there are ways to build upon what is arguably one of the most formative experiences in your life to create a life and a career you love — even if what you want to do next has nothing to do with what you did in the military.

Start by reflecting on the core values and beliefs you learned during your time in uniform.

We all took different experiences away from our time in service, but to get you started, here are some common values:

• Duty: Military members are taught to prioritize their obligations and responsibilities to the mission, their unit, and their country above personal interests.
• Honor: Maintaining personal and professional integrity is highly valued in the military. Honesty and ethical conduct are expected at all times.
• Loyalty: Loyalty to one's unit, comrades, and country is considered essential. Military members are expected to support and defend their fellow service members.
• Respect: Respect for superiors, peers, and subordinates is critical. This includes respecting differences in rank, background, and culture.
• Selfless Service: Military personnel are taught to put the needs of the team or mission above their own desires. Sacrifices may be required for the greater good.
• Courage: Physical and moral courage are highly valued. Military members are often placed in challenging and dangerous situations, and they are expected to face them with bravery and resilience.
• Discipline: The military places a strong emphasis on self-discipline and adherence to rules and regulations. This is essential for maintaining order and readiness.
• Teamwork: Collaboration and cooperation are fundamental in the military. Soldiers, sailors, airmen, and marines must work together effectively to achieve their objectives.
• Adaptability: Military personnel are trained to be adaptable in dynamic and changing situations. They must be able to adjust to new challenges and environments.
• Professionalism: Maintaining a high level of professionalism is expected in all interactions, whether with superiors, peers, or civilians.
• Patriotism: A love for one's country and a dedication to its values and principles are often instilled in military members.
• Service before self: The concept of putting the needs of the military and the mission before personal desires is a core belief in many military organizations.
• Integrity: Honesty, trustworthiness, and moral principles are fundamental to military service. Upholding these values is essential for maintaining the trust of the public and fellow service members.

Reflect on what these values mean to you, and identify how they align with your personal beliefs and aspirations in this new phase of life.

Next, think about the transferable “soft” skills you acquired during your service

Now that you’ve thought about your values, it shouldn’t be to hard to think about “soft skills” you learned in the military. Soft skills refer to non-technical, interpersonal, and personal attributes that enhance an individual's ability to work effectively in a professional setting.

These skills are often essential for building relationships, collaborating with colleagues, and achieving success in the workplace. Soft skills include communication, teamwork, adaptability, problem-solving, time management, leadership, and emotional intelligence.

Identifying these skills and considering how they can be applied in civilian contexts can open up new possibilities for your life purpose. For example, leadership skills could translate into a desire to mentor or lead in a civilian career or community organization.

Explore the passions and Interests you have outside of your military identity

Activities like sports, public speaking, writing, gardening — whatever brings you joy and a sense of meaning — can help you to identify areas where you may want to focus your post-military life that also allow you to make a meaningful impact. One of the greatest joys of leaving the military is picking up where you left off on activities and passions you abandoned during your service. Just be prepared to give yourself a bit of grace, and allow yourself to not be perfect at something you haven’t done in a long time.

Ask for help

Perhaps some of the best advice is to seek professional guidance. Career counselors, coaches, and mentors can provide valuable guidance in the search for life purpose. Whether you reach out to resources within the VA, or find help with the career center at your university (if you’re a student veteran), find someone who specializes in supporting military transitions to civilian life. These experts can help you identify your strengths, interests, and values, and guide you in exploring purpose-driven career paths or community involvement.

Connect with other people who share your passions and interests

Also, consider networking with others who share your goals and passions to help solidify your life purpose. While veterans are notoriously bad at networking (many of us hate anything that might be perceived as “brown nosing”), joining veteran support organizations, networking groups, or community service initiatives can help you connect with like-minded individuals and explore opportunities aligned with your values. Tap into collective wisdom and experiences to open doors to potential life-purpose pathways.

Consider entrepreneurship

Certainly, business ownership has been a path I’ve found to be very rewarding and a great way to find a life purpose. Veterans are uniquely suited to business ownership. Our leadership experience, problem-solving abilities, and no-nonsense resource management skills come in very handy when we start a business. Just make sure that it aligns with your values, addresses a specific need, and can provide you with a clear sense of purpose. (Plus the adrenaline rush of building something that makes you money from scratch yourself is amazing.)

Take your time, be open amp; cut yourself some slack

However you go about finding your life purpose after service, it’s important to take some time to reflect on the impact you made during your time in uniform, and consider how you want to continue making a positive difference afterwards. Explore fields or causes where you can leverage your skills and experiences to contribute meaningfully, such as humanitarian work, public service, or advocacy.

Also, be willing to experiment with different options, seek feedback, and be open to new experiences.

Finally, approach this process with patience and self-compassion. Transitioning from the military to the civilian world is like repurposing a versatile toolkit. The skills and experiences gained in the military are the various tools in your kit. As you enter the civilian workforce, you don't discard these tools; instead, you adapt and use them in new and creative ways to build a successful career, much like a skilled craftsman repurposes familiar tools for different projects.

Finding your life purpose is a long journey, one that never ends, but it can be an extremely rewarding adventure, if you let it.

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