How to make coaching not work for you at all

Coaching always Works!

If you are a runner, It will make you a Champion!

But if you do not want to take actions, Own responsibility, let mediocrity grow on your comfort Zone, Then you may Run away from the Stadium to anywhere else where it is cosy, comfortable and familiar!

I am sharing below some ways on How coaching will not give you results at all.

Before Signing up with a Coach you ask yourself these questions.

Do you want success?

Do you think that you deserve Success?

Are you willing to Commit and give your best for being successful?

if your answer is NO to any one of the questions above, Then you may consider not working with a Coach at all!

5 Ways to make coaching not to work in your Favour

Quick n Easy ways to not change anything in your Life and Be a Victim of Circumstances

1. Kill the Communication

The best way to make coaching work in your favour is to Spill your Heart out Because your coach will be Non-Judgemental and will keep every word from you Confidential. However to make this process not work for you;

DO NOT reply to your coach

DO NOT reply to SMS, WHATSAPP or Take their call.

This way you do not have to take responsibility and accountability for actions and be not answerable to yourself

This is one of the best ways to Kill ANY relationship in your life, Avoidance is the Key and forever Bliss!

2. Trust & Faith could be Dangerous

Having faith and Trust will give you Hope!

if you put your Trust and Faith in your Coach, Your Coach will Hypnotise you to start Believing in yourself and be 100% Certain that you can ACHIEVE ANYTHING you want!

Please do not fall for Being a  Winner; It will take away all your Comfort and put you through a lot of Work to do Smartly and you would be tired of it, Success is not that much Worth! or is it?

3. Only Share Good News

A Coach stays with you in bad times, For good times you will have so many people around you that you won't need to remember your coach.

Remember Do not speak to your coach Often, Avoid speaking to him when you are in a Mess, Difficult Times, Emotional, Sad or depressed; Else your coach is an expert to get you out of any Difficult Situation!

Deal with everything Yourself and connect with your coach when you are at your best So that you can tell him you Do not need him.

Coaching is a War-Time Intervention, Do not use it when you are in Difficult times or you will Win as many battles as you wish to work for. What's the point in winning a War!

If you believe that Misery and Mediocrity is Comforting, and Life is not much Worth if spent in taking actions and achieving what you want!

One Advice - Stay away from a Coach, Especially when its a Difficult time.

4. Flaunt your Ego

Ego is a Self defence or protection mechanism, It can safeguard you from any Discomfort coming your Way.

Working with a Coach you would learn for the first time how to think and respond instead of reacting to situations people and behaviours.

Why take so much pain, Why even wreck your brain to search for possibilities.

Even an Ostrich knows how to escape an Enemy by burying its head in the Sand!

Bury Your head in Emotions, Despair, Victimhood and Flaunt your Ego, Blame everyone and everything around and defend with all the excuses to not be better version of yourself.

5. Play for Smaller Stakes

These Simple Formulas will make you Win!

More Actions = More Outcome

Best Coach = Best result

Taking Ownership=Being a Champion

So to not win in Life, Do not go to a Coach!

And if at all you have forced yourself to find a Coach, Work with someone who gives you session for free, So that nothing is put on stake Except your Life and pitfall of being a Winner!

You may also find a coach who gives you the comfort of paying less and with Convenience, That way you can always exit anytime without the need to pay what it's worth to Win and achieve all that you want.

With Above 5 ways you can always Play the Guilt card

Mistakes are always Forgivable when you are willing to admit them and not to repeat them ever again in future.

However, if you feel bad, Going into the wrongness of you, Staying guilty; there is no need for you to do anything at all.

Staying in Guilt is the lowest form of Emotion; its like being drowned in water (Guilt) When you can't breath, you can choose not to come out. If you come out the Air will make you come Alive again!

But is that what you want? Being Alive?

The Purpose of this Article is to present an Upside-down Picture, a lot of times some people paint it that way.

Hope with the above write up explains how would it be the Impact of not Being Coachable.

Connect with me, if you wish to take ownership and want to create a life you want for yourself