How to Shine in Big Group Seminars: A Guide for the Nervous (and the Curious) ✨

Walking into a room filled with strangers can feel daunting, especially during seminars or group events. You might catch yourself wondering, How should I behave? What if I say something awkward? Or even worse, what if I say nothing at all?

Take a deep breath—you’re not alone in these thoughts. I’ve been there, and so have countless others. The good news? You can not only survive these events but thrive in them. Here’s how:

Start with a Game Plan (and Realistic Expectations)

No, you don’t have to be the life of the party. Set small, achievable goals:

1️⃣ Aim to connect with 2-3 people meaningfully rather than trying to meet everyone.

2️⃣ Prepare a brief self-introduction or a question about the event topic. This helps break the ice without overthinking.

💡 Pro Tip: Research the event topic beforehand. Familiarity breeds confidence, and having a point of reference for conversations can ease your nerves.

Smile and Make Eye Contact

First impressions matter, and nothing says approachable like a warm smile and friendly eye contact. Even if you’re not speaking, showing genuine interest can help build rapport.

Find Common Ground

A simple “How are you enjoying the seminar so far?” or “What drew you to this event?” can spark meaningful conversations.

People love talking about themselves—let them!

✔️ Ask open-ended questions.

✔️ Listen actively, and follow up with curious responses.

Balance Listening and Speaking

You don’t need to dominate the conversation to be memorable:

• Listen more than you speak—it’s a sign of emotional intelligence.
• When you do speak, keep your points concise and relevant to the discussion.

Handle Awkward Moments Gracefully

Awkward silences?

They happen. Instead of panicking, embrace them. Shift the focus back to the event:

• “This speaker has shared so much—what stood out to you?”
• “I love how they framed [topic]. What’s your take on it?”

Don’t Be Afraid to Step Back

Feeling overwhelmed?

It’s okay to take a breather. Head to the refreshments table or step out for a moment to recalibrate. Rejoining the group with renewed energy is better than forcing yourself to stay.

Follow Up and Stay Connected

The real magic happens after the seminar:

✔️ Exchange LinkedIn profiles or business cards.

✔️ Drop a follow-up message thanking them for the conversation.

💡 Pro Tip: Reference something specific from your chat to make your message stand out.

A Final Word: Embrace Being Uncomfortable

Remember, everyone feels awkward in large groups at some point. What sets you apart is your willingness to show up, be present, and engage—even when it feels nerve-wracking.

With practice, seminars can become less intimidating and more of an exciting opportunity to grow and connect.

What About You?

How do you navigate big group settings?

Share your tips and experiences in the comments—I’d love to hear them!

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