It's All About The Journey

I've recently decided to take part in a charity boxing match on 2nd December 2023, in my hometown of Bournemouth. There will be no press conferences, trash talk, open training sessions on the beach - certainly not on the beach in November/December. What there will be is a dedication, hunger, passion and maybe a hint of built up anger too. Why am I doing this? Two reasons, firstly my father-in-law to be has been diagnosed with Prostate Cancer, so I'm raising money for Prostate Cancer UK (click here to donate) and secondly, the challenge and the journey it'll bring.

Since I can remember I have always struggled with my weight and fluctuated most in my early twenties to my current age of 29 (I'm actually 30, but refuse to accept it). At my heaviest during this time I was 17st 9lbs and my lightest 11st 8lbs, I've run two 10K races, two half-marathons and one marathon during this time too, with my last 'event' being on 7th April 2019 and possibly my best result yet. Coming 59th out of 1,214 in the Bournemouth Bay 10K Run with a chip time of 43:46. This was my peak.

Since then, I've moved and renovated our home, experienced lockdown/COVID and had a little girl, who's now 18 months old, not to mention our eldest munchkin who is seven going on 17. A lot has happened in those four years and a lot of weight gained too. I almost forgot, dislocated my left ankle too, but this is not a sob story.

When I decided to 'sort myself out' and become healthy, little did I know the journey I'd go on. More mentally rather than physically. In comparison the physical side of things is easy. The conversations with myself. The self-discipline. Learning more and more about myself as time progressed and how success keeps fueling more success. This has been the biggest challenge.

Currently I'm on a good six week streak of, eating well and exercising anywhere between two to four times a week and physically seeing the benefits but mentally more so too. Strangely I'm not as tired, have more motivation, it certainly feels as though a knock on effect is happening in all aspects of my life, and long may that continue. In the back of my head though, there is a niggle, of 'how long can I keep this up for?' This is what has stopped that continuity for me previously, and I've just given up, we've all been there, I'm sure you have too.

How am I going to combat that this time round? What makes this time so different from all the other failed attempts? I feel different this time, I have a goal in mind, my fight on the 2nd December and our wedding on 25th July 2024. I'm sure in between these two events I'll seek another challenge, just to keep me on my toes and add that extra bit of drive needed to avoid failure.

One of the biggest things I've learnt so far is when having those moments of self doubt is to be honest with yourself, this is the biggest and simplest piece of advice I can offer. For me it is along the lines of: there will be weeks where I can't exercise as much as I'd like, so make sure what you eat is right and do what you can, when you can, try and make the time. I won't beat myself up if I don't go for a run or training if my work schedule and Dad life doesn't allow it BUT I will make sure I eat well. Control the controllables and put them into practice. Yes, have targets and goals, but make sure the ultimate goal is broken down to little wins along the way, be kind to yourself and do what you can, when you can. This will build and build, and become the best consistent you have. It'll be your best tool and asset in both work and personal life.

Now. Where am I? I'm certainly not the heaviest I've ever been and in contrast not the lightest either, I could certainly be more aesthetic. This I'm aware of, but I have a plan in place, an achievable plan, achievable being the key word. It fits within my lifestyle, this is what I'd urge you or anyone you know who wants to make similar changes. Enjoy the journey and the process of it all, the ups and downs.

This, is Round 2.

Round 1 I got the knockdown but unfortunately they got back up.

Round 2, I need to go in and get the knockout. Here's to the journey and never achieving the goal.

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