Jana Grežová

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Language Coach and Mentor, English Teacher, School Psychologist, Manager

Location: Slovakia 

Empowering Language Learners

Back when I was just a wide-eyed student in primary school, I made a promise to myself – I was NEVER going to become a teacher! Little did I know that I would start teaching in the very first year of my university studies... 😂 Fast forward nearly two decades, and I can confidently say that I've dedicated my life to education.

As a Psychology and English major, I have always been fascinated by the neuropsychological facets of language acquisition. Over the years, I found myself wondering why certain students didn't thrive in conventional classroom settings, which led me to dig deeper into the factors that contribute to the success of language learning.

However, it wasn't until my boss, who also happens to be a dear friend and mentor, suggested that I enrol in a coaching course that everything started to fall into place. This course not only provided a structured framework for what I had been doing intuitively but also transformed my mindset forever, shifting me from being an English teacher to a language coach and mentor.

What's truly exciting is that my professional journey has expanded beyond solely teaching English; now, I have the opportunity to assist people in learning a variety of languages. My first "guinea pig" for language coaching was none other than my boss. In the beginning, I tended to be too technical in my approach to asking questions, a common mistake for newcomers in coaching. I realised I wasn't completely in sync with her, focusing more on what questions to ask and nailing the action plan than tuning into her emotional response. However, she still viewed the entire experience positively and, as I found out, she had made a shift in her perspective on learning.

She had initially wanted to start learning Russian but, given her hectic schedule, couldn't find the time for regular course attendance. Her approach to learning had been centred around attending lessons and engaging in consistent cooperation with a language instructor. At one point, though, she realised that she didn't need to be dependent on her tutor and that she could manage her own learning independently. She understood that she didn't have to wait until she had "more time" to start learning but could, in fact, embark on self-directed learning immediately. And so she did. 

So, despite my initial coaching experience being far from perfect, it still made sense. It was precisely because it wasn't perfect that I could make further progress. After all, it's through taking action and learning from our mistakes that we improve.

Nowadays, I am particularly committed to supporting those who are often labelled as ‘challenging’, or 'tough nuts to crack'– students who may grapple with self-doubt, individuals who've spent years wrestling with a foreign language, yet still can't muster a meaningful conversation. Often, they've convinced themselves that they lack the inherent talent for languages or do not have the time / resources / (anything else) to learn the language. It's the coaching framework that empowers them to open their eyes and discover for themselves what they need to change in order to achieve success.

I vividly recall one of my most memorable coaching experiences with a student who was wrestling with speaking stress and self-consciousness. She walked into my classroom visibly apprehensive, expressing her frustration after spending over a decade learning English but feeling far from proficient enough to engage in a conversation. After our first coaching session, which was (surprisingly for her) conducted almost entirely in English, she left with a newfound sense of exhilaration, uttering words that have remained etched in my memory: "No one has ever asked me these questions before. I've never thought of my learning like this."

You're probably wondering what questions I asked. To be honest, I can't recall exactly. Unfortunately, I didn't record the conversation (shy students often don't respond well to being recorded). During sessions, I strive to be fully present, attuned to the student's current mood and needs. I respond to whatever sparks my natural curiosity, asking questions that guide the student to see their learning from new perspectives.

In the coaching world, there's a tendency to chase "the golden question," the one that sparks that aha moment, opening the client's eyes to something they hadn't seen before. While I don't doubt such moments exist, in my experience, the process is usually more subtle. It's not about one specific question but rather a series of questions that ignite the thought process. The idea of a single life-changing question triggering a revelatory aha moment is a romantic notion, but the reality is a bit more pragmatic. I typically ask questions like the following, but of course, the wording and sequence can vary. Every conversation is unique, as are everyone's needs.

• What do you actually need to do with the language?    
• What's your biggest challenge?
• How do you feel about making language mistakes?
• What do you think others think of you when you make mistakes?
• How do you perceive foreigners trying to communicate in your mother tongue?
• Describe your language journey: how have you been learning so far?
• How confident do you feel about your language skills: reading, listening, writing, speaking?
• How much time per week do you typically spend engaging with the foreign language?
• How much time do you dedicate to working on each of those individual skills?
• How has it been working out for you?
• How have you learned other skills in the past? (Not just language-related skills - any skills, including driving, skiing, cooking...)
• How can you apply the principles that helped you learn those skills to language learning?
• What activities do you enjoy doing, and how can you incorporate the foreign language into those activities?
• Which of your daily routines could be done in the foreign language?

Now, let's return to the student I mentioned earlier. Initially, her goal had been to enrol in a general English course, aiming to bolster her vocabulary and grammar. However, she departed with a profound revelation, realising that her challenge wasn't about memorising vocabulary or correcting grammar mistakes; it was about her ability to manage stress, her attitude toward making mistakes, and devising a learning strategy that suited her lifestyle and unique needs. Eventually, she discovered that she didn't need a traditional coursebook to learn English but could start using authentic materials and view English as a tool to develop her personal and professional interests. As our coaching journey concluded, she reflected, "This has been completely different from what I originally expected, and it has helped me immensely, not only in finding my own way to learn English but also in other areas of my life totally unrelated to language learning."

This moment encapsulates the change we, as educators, aspire to create. Our goal is to empower students to view their learning from a different perspective, to enable them to identify the reasons behind their learning challenges, and to discover what changes they need to make to start progressing. However, simply telling them what to do is often ineffective because, in truth, we are not experts on their individual learning journeys. Each student is the best expert on their own learning. The key to fostering change lies in providing students with the opportunity to explore and discover on their own.

This realisation led me to gradually adopt a coaching approach in the majority of my teaching:

• I began to ask more and instruct less.
• I stopped providing students with all the information on a silver platter. Instead, I encourage them to discover and explore independently, giving them the opportunity to learn without solely relying on me as their primary source of knowledge.
• I have learned to embrace patience and silence to allow space for students' contemplation.
• I have become more goal-oriented, prioritising structured collaboration that leads to specific, tangible outcomes, rather than endless language courses with vague promises of language skills improvement.
• My focus has shifted to the learning that occurs beyond our scheduled lessons, recognizing the significant influence of a student's personality and lifestyle on their language learning results.
• I guide students towards self-reflection and awareness of their own learning strategies to help them find out whether what they do is actually leading to their desired destination.
• Ultimately, my primary aim is to empower students to create their unique path in their language learning.

It's been a year since I embarked on the journey of integrating coaching principles into my daily life and work, and to be honest, I still feel like I'm just scratching the surface. I believe that every educator should embrace the role of a lifelong learner and there's a wealth of knowledge and growth still ahead of me.

One of the most invaluable gifts I have ever received was the opportunity to participate in a 7-week intensive mental fitness training program offered by the World Mindset Organisation. Rooted in the principles of neuroscience, the positive intelligence methodology, and the WMO's highly specialised and supported Soul Level Learning™️ approach, this program equipped me with a treasure trove of techniques and concepts that have proven to be immensely beneficial. I've eagerly incorporated many of these principles into my coaching practice, for instance using short yet highly effective mindfulness techniques. These exercises have not only helped my clients maintain focus and inner balance during our sessions but have also extended their positive impact on the clients' individual learning experiences. More crucially, they've equipped my clients to cope with the challenges of communicating in a foreign language, which can often be a source of stress and anxiety.

A client of mine, who had grappled with severe speaking anxiety, once admitted that she was already familiar with some of these mindfulness techniques. However, she had never thought of applying them in the context of language learning and use, and she regarded them as a game changer in her approach to overcoming speaking stress.

So, I have learned a lot from my clients during this transformative journey. However, I have also come to realise that not everyone is ready to embrace the coaching approach and take full responsibility for their own learning. There are students who just expect to be given clear instructions, not wanting to take the reins and steer their learning journey. Of course, I'm all about flexibility and never pushing anyone.

The truth is, there's still a fair amount of scepticism surrounding coaching. My enthusiasm and excitement took a hit when a new student in one of my company courses expressed his aversion to coaching at the beginning of our collaboration. He said, "I am allergic to the word ‘coaching’. At work, everyone just wants to coach me and keeps asking stupid questions. I’m sick of it."  So, I stepped back and reverted to the traditional teaching style, following the coursebook because that's what he felt comfortable with. He craved structure and was content to complete exercises and engage in guided conversations following the course book's instructions.

The problem, though, was that he could only communicate in English during our lessons, and even then, it was limited. He felt a sense of embarrassment when it came to speaking outside of the classroom. So, over time, I started asking innocent questions that I hoped would shift his mindset a bit. And you know what? It worked. He became more engaged and started taking the initiative in discussing his learning strategies. In fact, he even brought his own material to our last lesson, a clear sign that he was breaking free from the shackles of the coursebook and beginning to explore using English in his own purposeful way.

This experience was an eye-opener for me, reaffirming the importance of trust in our students. Instead of imposing our views, we should gently guide them toward self-reflection and help them discover and evaluate their strategies on their own. I've come to believe that this is the essence of coaching: having faith in our students and patiently waiting for them to be ready to awaken their awareness.

Language coaching, you see, goes far beyond teaching a specific foreign language. By embracing the coaching approach, we not only enhance the effectiveness of our teaching but also enable students to become active participants in their own learning. This shift empowers them to find solutions to their learning challenges and take control of their educational destiny. It's a transformation that not only benefits the students but also redefines the role of educators. We become facilitators, guiding students on a path of self-discovery, where they are the true captains of their learning voyage. And it’s a voyage that not only impacts their language skills but, surprisingly enough, it often extends into other areas of their lives.

Editor’s Notes

Strategic Steps

1. Exploration of Language Learning Psychology: Jana's background in Psychology and English fueled her curiosity about language acquisition, specifically for students struggling in traditional classroom settings, prompting her to dig deeper into factors affecting language learning success.
2. Introduction to Coaching: Encouragement from her boss led Jana to enrol in a coaching course, transforming her teaching approach from an English teacher to a language coach and mentor, marking a significant shift in mindset and methodology.
3. Integration of Coaching Framework: Her initial coaching experiences, including early mistakes, guided her to align her teaching approach with coaching principles, particularly focusing on empowering challenging students and those grappling with language proficiency issues.
4. Empowerment Through Questioning: Jana's coaching sessions revolve around thought-provoking questions that help students identify learning challenges, encouraging self-reflection, and guiding them towards personalised learning strategies.
5. Adaptation of Teaching Style: She shifted from instructing to questioning more, empowering students to discover and explore independently, fostering a student-centric learning environment emphasising self-reflection, patience, and structured collaboration.

Outcomes

1. Student Transformation: Her coaching approach resulted in transformative moments for students, unlocking new perspectives on language learning, enabling self-directed learning, and extending beyond traditional language course objectives.
2. Empowerment Through Coaching: By embracing coaching principles, students learned to view learning challenges differently, take ownership of their learning paths, and experience personal growth beyond language skills.
3. Shift in Teaching Methodology: Jana's teaching methodology shifted from traditional instruction to facilitation, emphasising student autonomy, patience, and guided self-discovery, resulting in more engaged and independent learners.
4. Mindfulness Integration: Integration of mindfulness techniques derived from mental fitness training enhanced students' coping mechanisms with speaking stress, leading to improved language learning experiences.
5. Adaptability and Trust: Encountering resistance to coaching, Jana showcased adaptability by gently guiding students towards self-reflection, allowing them to take charge gradually, emphasising trust in students' ability to navigate their learning journeys.

In summary, Jana's journey highlights the strategic steps she took to integrate coaching principles into her teaching methodology, resulting in empowered and self-directed language learners, extending far beyond language skills into personal growth and development.

Jana Grežová’s Reflection

The process of writing my story has been a deeply reflective journey. It has allowed me to examine my own experiences as a language coach, identify the key principles that have guided my students’ success, and to convey the essence of coaching in education. 

I am grateful for the opportunity to share my story, and I hope it will motivate other educators to embrace the coaching approach. I believe every teacher has the potential to become a coach; in fact, I have met great teachers who have been instinctively applying some of the coaching principles. However, recognizing these principles, using them consciously and acquiring a structured framework is what makes the difference.

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