Let’s Kick Fear Out Of The Driver’s Seat, Shall We?

I see this all the time… women hesitating to invest in their businesses. The result? A “comfortable” but restrictive business that keeps you stuck. 😞 You’re making it work, but you’re not breaking free.

You might think playing it safe is the “responsible” thing to do. It feels smart, right? Weighing the pros and cons. Calculating the risks. Telling yourself you’re just being practical. But let’s be honest – what you’re really doing is convincing yourself out of growth.

The Real Culprits: Fear of Failure, Fear of Success, and Fear of Sustainability

When you hesitate to invest, it’s often not coming from your intuition – it’s coming from fear. Fear of failure, fear of success, and even fear of sustainability can creep in and make you second-guess your decisions. 

You start running the numbers and getting stuck in the logic of it all:

👉🏻 Risk vs. reward. 👉🏻 Pros vs. cons.

But here’s the kicker: you’re moving away from that gut instinct – the powerful, intuitive YES – and into overthinking land. Sound familiar?

The Dangers of Playing It Safe

Now, don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying every opportunity is a yes. 🚫 But being too logical? That’s where you get stuck. It stops you from making the bold decisions that lead to the growth you’re dreaming of – the kind that gives you more than a “comfortable” business. It gives you freedom. 💸

Tuning into Your Intuition

So, here’s the deal. It’s not about jumping on every opportunity. It’s about recognizing when you’re playing small out of fear rather than because it’s the right move.

✅ Listening to that intuition of yours? That’s your superpower. It’s how you make those big, expansive decisions that propel your business forward.

Manage Your Fears: Steps to Freedom

Ready to break free from that fear-driven thinking? Let’s explore some actionable steps to help you manage those fears:

1. Start Each Day with Intention: Before diving into your tasks, take a moment to set your intentions for the day. Remind yourself why you serve the clients you do and the positive impact you create. This can help ground you and shift your mindset away from fear.
2. Explore the Origins of Your Fear: When you feel that familiar twinge of fear, ask yourself where it’s coming from. Reflect on past experiences – perhaps when you failed at something as a child or when success led to negative consequences. Acknowledge these feelings, and in whatever way feels right to you, release them. Write them out and burn the paper, or visualize them floating away. Let them go.
3. Make Conscious Business Decisions: When faced with a business decision, consciously ask yourself, “Am I making this decision from a place of fear? What would be the courageous move?” This simple question can help you shift your perspective.
4. Identify Procrastination Triggers: If you find yourself procrastinating on a task, pause and ask yourself, “Is fear playing any role in this?” Identifying fear can help you move forward.
5. Keep a Journal of Daily Wins: Celebrate your successes – no matter how small! Create a journal where you document your daily wins, and periodically review it to remind yourself of your progress and capabilities.
6. Join an Entrepreneurial Community: If you’re not already part of one, seek out a supportive entrepreneurial community. Surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals can help you feel less alone and more empowered to take risks.
7. Prioritize Revenue-Generating Activities: Schedule and tackle revenue-generating activities first. This not only boosts your bottom line but also builds your confidence as you see tangible results.
8. Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself. Understand that everyone faces fears and challenges. Acknowledge your feelings without judgment.
9. Review and Adjust Your Goals Regularly: Check in on your goals periodically. Are they still aligned with your vision? Adjust as needed to keep moving forward.
10. Document Evidence of Success: Keep a record of your successes and milestones. This documentation can serve as a powerful reminder of what you’ve achieved, helping to combat feelings of inadequacy.

Take Action: Embrace Your Freedom

Are you ready to take control of your fears and invest in your growth? My new free guidebook – Identifying and Conquering Fear – is designed to help. In it, you’ll find a self-assessment to identify the fears holding you back, along with practical strategies to move forward with confidence. You in?

Grab your free guidebook here!

Let’s kick fear out of the driver’s seat, shall we? Your business deserves more than “comfortable.” It’s time to embrace growth and unlock the freedom you’ve been dreaming of!