Make a Decision!

Most people will make the necessary changes in life when they need to. Need to usually refers to their rock bottom or on the verge of losing everything. Everyone’s “Rock Bottom” is different, but… that is when true change and effort is usually made. The question is…can this change and effort be consistent?

How about you avoid rock bottom, losing everything, and the regret that comes with it and… MAKE A DECISION! Look at your life right now. What are you unhappy with as an individual, a boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife, son/daughter, worker, etc… all the roles you play and aspects of YOUR life? Make a decision right now… that NO MORE! No more feeling that way, thinking that way, being that way. Make a decision to be a better you, have better relationships, and get more out of the only life you have to live.

Now be careful… with your new found decision and strength, it can be easy to be angry, resentful, and demeaning toward whatever and whomever you feel has been the culprit of your misery. That thing or person has only done what you have allowed or promoted it/them to do. If you pay attention… their behavior has never lied… they have been the same… YOU must accept your slice of the blame for the way your life and relationships have gotten and accept the responsibility for YOUR evolution. Notice I said YOUR evolution; because the only thing, person, and thoughts you can control are YOURS. Make a decision right now to be your best self and live your best life! Happy EVOLVING!!! Share your thoughts with me at www.facebook.com/menevolvingnow/ and EVOLVE at www.youevolvingnow.com

written by: Andre Young