Mastering Communication Part III: The Power of Thoughtful Pause

Written by Donna Pearring, PCC, Executive Leadership Coach and Facilitator at Winning Ways, Inc

Innovation often thrives in environments where collaboration, idea-sharing, and open communication are encouraged. However, even in workplaces where these ideas are encouraged, it does not often result in effective communication that achieves the results desired. In this third installment on mastering communication, here are some additional key statistics that highlight the impact of the shortcomings of poor communication in the workplace:

1. Cost of Ineffective Communication: According to David Grossman, author of several books, including "You Can't Not Communicate: Proven Communication Solutions that Power the Fortune 100”, a staggering 400 surveyed corporations with 100,000 employees each cited an average loss per company of $62.4 million per year because of inadequate communication to and between employees.
2. Loss of Productivity: A survey conducted by The Economist Intelligence Unit found that 44% of respondents reported that ineffective communication had caused delays or failure in completing projects. Additionally, according to a report by the Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM), 86% of respondents cited ineffective communication as a major reason for workplace failures.
3. Innovation and Creativity: Research published in the Journal of Organizational Behavior found that poor communication negatively affects creativity in the workplace. When employees feel inhibited in expressing their ideas or are unsure about how to communicate effectively with team members, it can stifle creativity and innovative thinking.

As discussed in the first two Mastering Communications articles, stating one’s intention and actively listening are two very important concepts for supporting more effective communications. In addition, there is one concept often neglected in the realm of communications – allowing time to THINK! We do not necessarily correlate thinking with communications, yet, it is, indeed, a necessity for enhancing how we communicate our ideas, thoughts, and desired outcomes.

ALLOW TIME FOR THINKING

Allowing time for thinking is a valuable practice that can significantly enhance communication outcomes. Yet, we are uncomfortable with silence in our conversations. Subsequently, we keep talking or we think the other person is not engaged if they have not replied immediately with a brilliant response. Here's how incorporating this approach can improve communication:

1. Encourages Reflection: Allowing time for thinking gives individuals the opportunity to reflect on the information presented, process their thoughts, and formulate a well-considered response. This reflection promotes deeper understanding and clarity in communication.
2. Facilitates Active Participation: Rushed communication often leads to superficial responses or incomplete understanding. By allowing time for thinking, individuals are more likely to actively engage in the conversation, contributing thoughtful insights and perspectives.
3. Reduces Misunderstandings: Taking the time to think before responding reduces the likelihood of misinterpretation or miscommunication. It allows individuals to clarify their thoughts, articulate their ideas more effectively, and convey their message with greater precision.
4. Promotes Inclusivity: Allowing time for thinking ensures that everyone has an opportunity to participate in the conversation, regardless of their communication style or processing speed. This promotes inclusivity and ensures that diverse perspectives are considered and valued.
5. Enhances Decision-Making: In situations where decisions need to be made, allowing time for thinking enables individuals to weigh the options, consider the potential consequences, and make informed decisions. This leads to more thoughtful and strategic decision-making processes.
6. Fosters Creativity: Giving individuals time to think fosters creativity and innovation by allowing them to explore different ideas, perspectives, and solutions. This encourages out-of-the-box thinking and promotes the generation of novel insights and approaches.
7. Builds Confidence: Allowing time for thinking empowers individuals to express themselves more confidently and assertively. It gives them the opportunity to organize their thoughts, gather their ideas, and communicate with greater clarity and conviction.
8. Strengthens Relationships: By demonstrating patience and respect for others' thought processes, allowing time for thinking fosters stronger relationships built on trust, understanding, and mutual respect. It shows that you value others' perspectives and opinions, leading to more positive and collaborative interactions.

Incorporating time for thinking into communication practices requires patience, active listening, and a willingness to pause and allow for reflection. By embracing this approach, individuals and teams can enhance communication effectiveness, promote deeper understanding, and achieve more meaningful outcomes in their interactions.

Effective communication is not a one-time endeavor but an ongoing journey of continuous improvement and adaptation to meet the dynamic needs of a diverse population. 

Remember, if we keep doing what we have always done, we will always get what we already have. 

What can you do differently to implement the three concepts of stating your intention, active listening, and allowing time to think to master your communications?

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In addition to coaching for Winning Ways, Inc., Donna Pearring is an ICF (International Coach Federation) PCC credentialed Leadership and Executive Coach, Instructor and Facilitator, and Program Manager with over 25 years of practical business and leadership experience in Fortune 500 companies, such as IBM and Siemens. During Donna’s career in IT and Telecommunications, she gained experience and appreciation for the entire business continuum, from sales through service. This experience, as well as her experience as a program manager, enables Donna to relate to today’s business challenges and allows her to incorporate real-life experience with organization and leadership best practices for more effective and sustainable results.