To meet, to know, to love and then to part…..
Ending of a Relationship
Pleasure of love lasts but a moment .
Do you feel at a loss, sad, heartbroken? How do you get over the pain of a bad breakup? Do you worry about the prospect of a new relationship?
You meet, you date, you fall in love, possibly get married, have children and then it ends. What do you do?
I believe the average marriage is expected to last for 35 years. However chance of divorce is greatest between the fourth and eighth wedding anniversaries. Technology is helping people now who are separating.
Your Friends and Family
They don’t like him. Now, I’m not talking about your negative Nancy friend who literally doesn’t like anyone. I’m talking like, no one likes this guy, and no one has anything good to say about him.
It almost seems to you that no one sees him for the way he really is, but in reality, it’s you who probably don’t see him for who he really is.
You’re Constantly Analyzing
About Whether or Not to Break Up With Him
Do you get it. In a new relationship, I think it’s natural to have a few questions about whether or not it’s right, but this goes a little bit further.
If it’s plaguing your mind about what’s wrong with him, then chances are there’s something seriously wrong.
You find out your partner of number of years, months or weeks is not right for you. When you realise this it is Christmas, your first without him. How to do you conquer the festive season single?
There is also too New Year’s Eve. Do you try to discover who you are again because you are so lost after being a ‘twosome’ for so long?
Does the strike at midnight on New Year’s Eve make you vow ‘this year I am going to get healthy, this year I am not going to date anyone and I am never going to get my heartbroken again’. Sounds reasonable.
Is it possible?
How do you mend a broken heart?
There is no magical cure, just actions and words. No special book will help you. It is down to you to mend you. You can recruit friends and family. Take each day as it comes. Do the things you have not done before. Travel the world, buy a house and change jobs. Or just simply be you. Figure out who you are again, what do you enjoy doing in your spare time?
You Don’t Know Anything About This Guy Except That He’s Good In Bed
In my opinion , relationships founded only on sex…Usually end up only going about three months, because that’s right around the point when sex starts to matter less.
You’ve Caught Him In Many Lies Before
Here’s the problem with lying.
Once you start catching people lying all the time, then you’re always going to be wondering what lies haven’t you caught him in?
You Have Unrealistic Expectations of What a Relationship Really Is.
Maybe you want a man who’s really caring and soft and sensitive but you also want a man who’s really exciting and hard to get, or you want a man who’s really tall and really handsome but you don’t want a man who attracts the attention of other women.
These are the types of things that are going to happen in relationships. You can’t have one without the other, so you want to set your expectations with what a relationship really looks like.
Is it really a bad prospect of being single?
You can focus on the most important person in your life. You can work on having a relationship with the one person who will always be there for you - You have time to do so too. You can do the things you love that you may not have done in a relationship.
Focus on your goals, career and ambitions. You do not have to please anyone apart from you. You do not have to compromise and can live anywhere in the world. You can spend time with other important people in your life, your friends and family.
You have freedom and can have a bad day or a good day without worrying about anyone else. Your house, flat and car is your domain. You do not have to put up with the confusion of if someone wants to be with you or not. You have control of your life and how you live it.
Make memories, start a new adventure. You do not have to visit the in-laws. You have your own work schedule. You can have male and female friends. If you choose to date you can.
It is when we hurt that we learn.
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Thank you … Truth is everybody is going to hurt you. Pain of love lasts a lifetime.