Mental Self-Care, Key #1: Somatic Care

[excerpted from, 9 Keys to Mental Self-Care: Health Psychology ©2023]

In a book on mental self-care – we begin with the body.

While this may seem counterintuitive, I trust that in the wake of our introductory chapter this beginning point is clear. Mind and body aren’t separate, even though we speak in categories of physical and mental health, and the effects of physical care – exercise, adequate sleep, nutrition and hydration, somatic therapies such as massage – on mental wellbeing is powerful medicine.

This is an easy way to ease into better mental care, too – even if many a New Year’s resolution for diet or exercise has been quickly broken – as there’s no need, in this key anyway, to analyze or understand our thoughts or emotions in order to improve our mental health – instead, the much more direct approach of caring for our body. If for any reason you’re feeling fragile of late, for example, these improvements to your physical strength will help to stabilize your mental state, after which you can proceed with more introspective methods.

The underlying message of such tender care is this: I am worthy of care. I can nurture myself.

If we think just in terms of the body’s nervous system, we can understand how exercise and sleep, improving our nervous system’s function, can affect the brain, or central nervous system. If we consider the circulatory system, we understand instantly that better circulation means more blood flow, with all its nutrients, to the brain. Healthy sleep, of course, is a deep period of relaxation and ‘reboot’ for the brain; nutrition provides the very ingredients on which brain health relies.

Meanwhile, somatic therapies – massage, acupuncture, reflexology, chiropractic, and many more – work on muscles, bones, and nerve endings, but are also balancing mind as well as body – and far beyond relaxation or stress reduction, while those are profoundly beneficial to mental health in and of themselves. A related and especially profound approach can be seen in Asian forms of exercise which are also focused on balancing the body’s energy, such as yoga, makko ho, taijiquan or other qigong, among others.

What’s more: our physical body holds memories, as the peripheral nerves are branches of that same master computer system, so to speak. A good deal of research supports the embodied aspects of trauma, or cellular memory, for example, and it’s not at all uncommon for someone on a massage table or following acupuncture or an osteopathic manipulation to find themselves filled with emotions or memories. The body remembers, and what we experience becomes imprinted not only in the brain but also in our soft tissue.

For 2 decades, I had a clinic in New York (I’ve now lived abroad for an equal number of years), in which I provided not only psychotherapy but also acupuncture, massage, nutritional counseling, and a number of other somatic therapies. There were countless times that the person on the treatment table found themselves able to access thoughts, feelings, or memories long buried, or to find that those same mental phenomena had somehow been transformed. I’ve also been the recipient of many somatic therapies over the years, and had similar experiences myself.

Too, I worked in a hospital addictions unit, supervising an acu-detox treatment (ear acupuncture), and it was exceedingly common for people receiving this simple treatment of a few tiny needles in each ear, essentially meant to support the body in early recovery (needles for liver, lungs, kidneys, for example), to find that their thoughts and emotions had also somehow changed.

I am a very strong supporter of mental care via the physical body.

We all know that we hold stress in our bodies. While psychological distress is an intangible, mental-emotional response to either an extraordinary event or a series of lower-grade, chronic occurrences, it manifests without question in the physical body. Well beyond muscle tension and ‘frayed nerves’, stress response can affect organs as well, resulting in a host of stress-related conditions – – from hypertension and breathing difficulty to stomach ulcers and gut issues, just to name a fraction, and all very real. In medical science and the clinical world, these effects are well known – and it’s commonly agreed that if we could control for stress response, countless other conditions both physical and mental would remarkably improve.

Interestingly, as we’re surely social creatures and even mimic one another unconsciously via mirror neurons and other bodily processes, we resonate with one another in terms of stress response, too. Known as ‘stress contagion’, ‘empathic stress’, or ‘stress resonance’, we can experience a stress response based on another person’s experience of stress (Engert et al., 2019).

The most profound stress response then, in relation to trauma, is surely held in the body – short-term when faced with acute trauma and normally beginning to resolve within the first month, or becoming an entrenched, long-term problem when the result of chronic or multiple traumas or when the original one wasn’t sufficiently processed psychologically – in all likelihood couldn’t be, for various reasons including the profundity of the trauma itself. This is what we refer to as posttraumatic stress disorder, or PTSD. Trauma, according to van der Kolk (2014) and others, reshapes body and brain in a way that not only brings a variety of symptoms but also restricts the ability to experience pleasure, joy, engagement, or trust. Somatic Experiencing is a form of body-oriented therapy for the resolution of trauma (Kuhfuß et al., 2021); others include trauma-informed yoga, bioenergetic therapy, and more.

Our physiology holds emotional content, too, often in ways that we can’t access in the mind; in other words, emotions are often considered unacceptable for one reason or another and suppressed, not only buried in the unconscious mind but also in our physical body. Think about repressed anger, perhaps even over years, and what that does to the physical body – and the conditions or even disease that can result. Greenberg (2021) argues that becoming aware of the bodily-felt emotions and expressing or processing these feelings in whatever way possible is critically important to health.

The reverse is also true. How we view our bodies powerfully affects our mental state; if you dislike your body shape or size, or some features, this can have great impact on your psychological wellbeing. Body appreciation or positivity is meant to reverse this effect, as we learn to love our bodies as they are – and as who we are, as we’re not in any way separate from our body even though we’ve all come to think of ‘it’ as something objective.

In a review of 240 studies, Linardon et al. (2022) found body appreciation to be negatively associated not only with eating disorders and body image disturbances but also with mental illness such as depression and anxiety. Appreciation of one’s body is positively associated with wellbeing, especially in forms of self-esteem, self-compassion, and sexual satisfaction.

Fully inhabiting the body, expanding our sense of self from the ‘ghost in the machine’ or that kernel within the mind as we commonly conceive, to a sense of self infused throughout the physical body – an embodied self – is essential to psychological wellbeing, I believe.

And we include caring for our physical self, of course, in all those ways grandmothers have always taught us; good nutrition (Christodoulou et al., 2023), adequate and good quality sleep (Guida et al., 2023), and physical exercise (Nowacka-Chmielewska et al., 2022) have all been directly associated with psychological wellbeing and resilience. Body-oriented therapies such as those mentioned in the beginning of this key, and those specifically for trauma resolution, all contribute strongly to mental wellbeing, as by now I trust is very clear. Kidd et al. (2023) have proposed that, while we know social support (which we’ll see much later, in our 8th key) is essential to mental health, it’s the proximity and affective touch of others that’s the most healing of all. (Hint: online communities can be very supportive – but they don’t replace physical human contact, for which we’re hard-wired.)

And don’t forget: singing and dancing are physical – and thus, mental – care, too!

So, how else can we boost our mental care via the care of our physical body?

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Exercises:

We begin with the obvious: exercise. Literally any form of physical exercise will boost mental health, in its effect on the blood circulation and nerve conduction, balancing of the endocrine system, and more. Starting small helps to ensure success; choose a form you like for just 15 minutes a day, something that can be done at home, and build slowly from there.

Consider too, Asian forms of exercise that are also meditative and focused on balancing of the body’s energy, whether yoga, makko ho, taiqi, qigong, or similar. If unfamiliar to you, begin perhaps with a basic stretching routine for flexibility, then you can add one of these as your second stage when ready. Even so, begin slowly – a 15-minute routine of one of these, rather than the full-form of taiqi for an hour, will help to ensure your follow-through.

And: sleep. Even if you think you’re sleeping well, it’s possible you aren’t; check your basic sleep hygiene, by which you do whatever you can to ensure the best possible sleep quality. Dark curtains, a fan for air circulation but also steady sound, temperature, comfort – and, no LED just before sleep. Put the phone or other device away and see that your last 15 minutes before sleep involve reading, stretching, meditating, or anything that doesn’t include a bright light in front of your eyes.

Nutrition: avoid ultra-processed or refined foods at all cost, including sugar and white flour as well. Focus on whole foods as much as possible – and even limit the natural supplements; while good for health, too many is still a strain on the liver. If you don’t know how to cook, consider learning the basics so you aren’t reliant on ready-made foods; consider a more plant-based diet with less meat and dairy (if you aren’t already vegetarian/vegan, that is).

If possible: get a massage, acupuncture, osteopathy, reflexology, or any other somatic treatment from time to time, to help your body remain as balanced as possible – for its best contribution to your mental health.

Do a body scan meditation. (This contributes to body love and appreciation; it also can help to inform us about our body, and gives us an opportunity to access body-based knowledge.) Sitting or lying comfortably, with a quiet mind and minimal distractions, focus on your slow and steady breathing. When you’re feeling peaceful, bring your focus to your feet; staying there for about a minute, notice your feet, their condition, any pain or sensation, their strength, whether they have anything to tell you. Then, move on to your calves, and do the same; progressively move up and to each body region in turn, checking in, seeking knowledge. When finally complete, take a deep breath to come to an alert state; reflect, and repeat often.

If you aren’t so knowledgeable about human anatomy and physiology, seek out some online videos and learn more. It’s very useful to know what’s beneath the skin, and to have a basic understanding of how things work.

Finally: if you feel you have any issues or concerns about your body, you might also meditate on extending love and compassion to your body. As before, get into a meditative state, then shift your focus from your breathing to your body; this time, focus on your whole body, surrounding and filling your body with loving kindness and compassion. Focus on a particular area that you dislike if true for you. Repeat often.

And sing. And dance. (If only at home, in private.)

9 Keys to Mental Self-Care, by Anne Hilty, ©2023

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