The Most Important Question Every Accountant Needs to Ask, Every Day

What if I told you that a seemingly simple question could be the key to unlocking your full potential as an accountant? Are you curious?

Good! Because in this article, I’m going to unravel the mystery behind this important question that most of us accountants tend to brush aside. 

The Most Important Question

Let’s start things off by addressing the most important question every accountant needs to ask, every day, and it's this: "How am I feeling?" Yes, you read that right.

Whether you realize it or not, emotions matter in the world of accounting. Why?  Because our emotions play a crucial factor in our daily work.  In fact, emotions are a bigger deal in the world of accounting than you probably are aware of.

The truth is that our feelings drive our actions, inactions, and reactions.  Our feelings are what cause us to procrastinate, check email instead of getting work done, and to complain about our workload.

As accountants, we often tend to ignore our feelings, but it’s important to understand the fascinating link between your feelings and your performance as an accountant.

Consider this:

• When was the last time you noticed that your emotions affected your work, whether it was a big decision or a routine task?

• Have you ever wondered why some days you're super productive, while other days it's a struggle to concentrate on the numbers?

• Do you think that understanding and managing your emotions could make you a better accountant?

As I discuss the role of emotions in accounting, you'll realize that it's not just about crunching numbers; it's about understanding yourself and how your feelings impact your job as an accountant.

The Significance of Emotions in Accounting

To start, let’s explore why emotions are a bigger deal in the world of accounting than you probably realize. As an accountant, emotions play a vital role, just like that secret ingredient that makes a good dish extraordinary.

For example, imagine two accountants, both equally skilled with numbers. One is in tune with their emotions, while the other doesn't pay much attention to how they're feeling.

Now, let's say a stressful situation arises. The emotionally aware accountant pauses and asks themselves, "How am I feeling?" This simple self-check helps them pause before they take action.

The second accountant, however, doesn't pause to consider their emotions. Because they’re stressed, they might react impulsively, complain, procrastinate, or make choices driven by unchecked feelings, which leads to ineffective action and results.

The truth is that our emotions are not just fleeting sensations; they're like gears that influence how we work, manage our time, and make decisions (to name just a few).

It’s also important to know that studies have found that accountants with higher emotional intelligence (ie, they’re aware of their emotions) tend to outperform their peers in client satisfaction, problem-solving, time management, productivity, and job satisfaction.

In fact, the AICPA offers a course on Emotional Intelligence, describing it as "teaching competencies and strategies to identify and manage your own emotions and the emotions of others, greatly increasing your chances of personal and professional success."

Here’s the thing - the work you get done when you’re feeling stressed and overwhelmed will be vastly different than when you’re feeling focused and determined. I promise you if you’re not asking yourself every day how you feel, you're not as effective as you could be.

The Brain's Impact on Emotions

Understanding how your brain processes emotions can be a game-changer for accountants in two significant ways: First, by recognizing when your emotions are taking the wheel, you can step back and regain control. Second, knowing how your brain operates emotionally can empower you to work more effectively with it.

Your brain has a lower, primitive part (the Toddler) that sounds the emotional alarm when something happens and a higher part (the Supervising Parent) that helps you think rationally, make decisions, and plan.

Unfortunately, the Toddler is in charge more than you realize, creating unhelpful emotions, and influencing what you do or not do.  Your higher brain, the Supervising Parent, can sometimes take a back seat when strong emotions, especially negative ones, take center stage. This can lead to wasted time, impulsive decisions, difficulty concentrating, or even forgetfulness.

For example, imagine you're working on a crucial financial report, and suddenly, you receive an unexpected email from a frustrated client. The emotional storm triggered by the lower, Toddler brain can overpower your logical thinking, leading to rushed calculations, missed deductions, or data entry errors.

Thankfully, we also have the power of self-awareness to help us manage our emotions.

The Power of Self-awareness

Self-awareness, or having a mirror inside your mind that reflects your thoughts, feelings, and actions, is a superpower that can transform your career as an accountant.

By recognizing your emotions and their impact on your work, you can navigate challenges more effectively and build trust with clients and colleagues. Self-awareness also enhances your relationships, helping you make better decisions and handle challenging interactions.

For example, let’s say you're working on a complicated tax return, and you start to feel a wave of frustration building up. Self-awareness is like a mirror that prompts you to ask, "How am I feeling?" You identify the emotion, in this case, frustration. 

This self-check allows you to pause, understand why you're frustrated, and make better decisions to stay focused and effectively tackle the return. In doing so, you not only complete your work more efficiently but also maintain a positive and professional relationship with your colleagues and clients.

Emotional Intelligence in Accounting

Emotional Intelligence is your compass in the world of emotions. It's about understanding, managing, and using your feelings effectively, both within yourself and in your interactions with others.

Emotional Intelligence is composed of several key components: self-awareness, self-regulation, social awareness, and relationship management. These skills help you navigate challenging conversations, build stronger relationships, and make better decisions.

For example, imagine you're dealing with a demanding client who's upset about their tax return.  Emotional Intelligence is your compass that guides you through this situation. 

With self-awareness, you recognize your client's frustration and your own anxiety.  Self-regulation enables you to stay calm and composed. Social awareness helps you understand the client's emotions, and relationship management allows you to address their concerns effectively. 

As a result, you not only resolve the issue professionally but also strengthen your client relationship. Emotional Intelligence is a skill that enables you to handle emotions and interactions skillfully.

Becoming a Smarter Accountant: Practical Tips

Here are some tips to get you started on the path to becoming a Smarter Accountant:

Cultivate Self-awareness: Regularly ask yourself, "How am I feeling?" Recognizing your emotional state is the first step towards using it to your advantage. Set aside time each day to check in with yourself.  Do not take action unless you first know how you’re feeling.  

Practice Self-regulation: When the pressure mounts, don't let your emotions run the show. Take deep breaths, pause, and think before you react. Avoid knee-jerk reactions and strive for a calm, measured response.

Develop Social Awareness: Pay attention to the emotions of those around you. Actively listen to others and empathize with their concerns. This will help you navigate conversations and relationships more effectively.

Master Relationship Management: Build strong relationships by using your Emotional Intelligence to inspire, influence, and collaborate with others. Turn challenges into opportunities for growth and transform your role as an accountant into a catalyst for positive change.

Becoming a Smarter Accountant isn't just about mastering numbers; it's also about mastering yourself. By incorporating the most important question that every accountant needs to ask, every day, you can elevate your career and become a more effective, successful accountant.

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