Moving Forward with Your Dreams Despite the Pain
Bokamoso Julius
I Help Masters & PhD Applicants Secure Admissions & Funding For Their Studies | PhD Student~Mental Health in Higher Education
Losing someone close is never easy, and when it happens, it can feel like the world has stopped. For me, that moment came recently when I lost my dear uncle.
The grief has been overwhelming, and each day I wake up with a heavy heart, struggling to find the motivation to carry on with my studies.
It's been a month of pain, reflection, and trying to navigate life without him.
As I sat quietly today, reflecting on the time we've had together and the lessons he taught me, I realized that life has to go on.
It’s not about moving on too quickly or pretending that the pain isn’t there. Instead, it’s about honoring his memory by continuing to pursue the dreams and goals that he would have wanted for me.
I know he would have been proud of my journey and would have encouraged me to keep pushing forward, even in the face of adversity.
If you are reading this and are in a similar situation—whether you've lost someone dear to you, or you're facing any kind of challenge that makes it hard to focus—know that it's okay to feel what you're feeling.
Mourning is a personal and important process, and it's not something you can rush. But also remember that your dreams, your goals, your future, still matter.
If you're applying for a scholarship or trying to advance your studies while going through a tough time, take it one day at a time.
Allow yourself to grieve, but also allow yourself to dream. It’s not easy to balance the two, but every small step you take towards your goals is a way of honoring not just your loved one, but also yourself.
Life is full of moments of joy and sorrow, and sometimes they come together in ways that make it hard to see the path forward. But it’s there, even if it feels faint right now.
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Keep going, and don’t be afraid to lean on others for support when you need it.
Your loved ones, whether here or in memory, would want nothing more than to see you succeed and find peace in the journey ahead.
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About the Author:
Bokamoso Julius is an experienced Educational Consultant specializing in guiding students through the scholarship application process for Masters and PhD programs. She offers personalized mentorship to help you achieve your academic goals and study abroad aspirations. Follow for more scholarship updates.