No one reads the attachments in your email. So don't assume they do.

Email is the primary form of communication in an office.

We send emails all day long and often attach documents to these emails.

However, just because an email has an attachment doesn't mean the recipient will download the attachment, open and read it.

We all have faced that mental block once in our career, when receiving an email with four attached documents, thinking, "I'll open that tomorrow".

Imagine receiving an email attachment in real life:

1. There is a Word document; you see the attachment in the email.
2. Now the mind knows that you will need to download it.
3. You download it even if it's a little painful, and you lose a bit of motivation.
4. You now have to navigate to the folder where the attachment is saved, together with 500 other files you downloaded in the last three months.
5. You find the document; it's the latest, on top of the pile
6. You feel a little anxious because you remember the ton of other documents below that you did not classify well (no one does, it's ok...)
7. You double-click the attachment to open it.
8. It opens in Word - which takes 5-10 seconds to open, during which you lose even more patience and motivation.
9. Finally, you start scrolling through the document to check how many pages there are. You feel a little depressed when you see there are 25 pages.
10. So you try to focus on the first page to understand what it's all about. But it's late, there are 2 acronyms you don't understand - and you have other things to do.
11. You close the document. You forget about it and never open it again.
12. In the back of your mind, you now have a "guilty process" that keeps knocking faintly at night. You should have read the document...

Why am I detailing all this?

Because when we face this situation, and even if we are efficient professionals, we often forget these attachments.

And it does not matter much because we know that if there is a meeting about the same topic, we'll go to the meeting to listen to what was IN THE DOCUMENT.

We come unprepared, and it's just a normal day at work.

The real problem is if WE do not to read the attachments and the documents that are sent to us... if we don't do it ourselves; when we present in similar meetings, we HAVE TO ASSUME that everyone else has identical behaviour.

It's not great, and it's not efficient, but it's what we all do.

The "Curse of Knowledge" assumes everyone else knows what's in the document.

The Curse of Knowledge is thinking that your colleagues have the background knowledge to understand everything you're going to say; like if that colleague had read the document.

So if he read the document, we can jump right into the details.

It is a flawed approach because most people will LACK the background knowledge to understand. Remember, they did not check the documents…

While you probably spent the last 20 hours writing these documents and putting together this meeting, they did not. They are very novices on the topic. So there is a HUGE GAP in understanding between what you know and what they know.

To do a proper job, you have to assume they don't know yet what you are talking about.

Even if they won't say it and sometimes lie about it (yes.. sure... I've opened the documents...), they might leave the room without knowing what it was all about.

If we dig too fast into the details, their brain will disconnect at the beginning of the meeting; they'll pretend to follow our logic, but their working memory won't "compute" what we say.

How would you suggest presenting information better in a meeting?

Because we can't change human nature, and how others download or read attachments - the only thing we can change is to make sure we start our meeting presentation with 3 to 4 slides of CONTEXT explanation.

It is easy to do. We just have to present the following information, which is Contextual. It gives a sense of "scale" (how big is the topic and project); of "location" (where it takes place) and it restates the "topic". This contextual information helps everyone position the topic in his mind, open the right mental folder - and get ready to absorb more information.

These are the 4 questions I recommend:

• Why do we do this project as an organisation?
• What is the background story of tackling this problem?
• How did we discover that problem in the first place?
• What are we trying to solve precisely here?

Once we have explained what seems obvious to us but is not for the rest of the room - then only we can dig into the details of HOW we do it.

You could do this little explanation in less than 2 minutes if you prepared your slides in advance. You can reuse these same slides in all your meetings about the same project.

You can even re-use the slides with the same people again and again. Since it takes only 2 minutes, and it really helps them reposition the topic in their mind, you won't "bore them".

On the contrary, they will thank you for helping them remember what it was about. The classic comment will be "ah, thank you... it's good to refresh my memory about this".

Remember: Because no one reads the attachments, you are helping everyone with this information. And it turns you into someone helpful.

You have become a "vector" for knowledge. Not someone cursed by it.

If you are interested in knowing more about the Curse of Knowledge, how it affects us at work and how we can overcome it when engaging with non-specialists like stakeholders, our management, or the public - we can organise a short call. See below.

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