Only those keep learning always succeed

What are your life's important learnings? Oh we have plenty of them.Most people fail, because they are afraid to stand up against their loved ones. Only by taking responsibility for your actions, you can become successful. Your Self Esteem is not dependent on the validation of others. Perfection is a mind trap. So, stop. Crying is not a sign of weakness. Never judge someone on others' gossip. Don’t get mad or expect understanding from others – Understand everyone has different life stories & experiences. Stop wasting your energy by reacting to toxic people's comments. The best way to deal with toxic people is to cut them out of your life as soon as possible. Never try to control everyone and everything around you. You have to step out of your comfort zone to get Success. Focus on your strengths, not other’s win.

You spend your first 20 years worrying what people think about you. You spend your next 20 years swearing that you don’t care what people think about you. You spend the next 20 years realizing that they aren’t thinking about you. A liberation! Any day on this side of the dirt is a good day. Some people didn’t make the cut last night. I was hit by a speeding vehicle as I was walking to a bus stop. I spent a month in rehab with two broken legs, a brain injury, multiple back injuries and other fractures. The night before I was hit, a young, married couple was also hit. They both died. Practice gratitude.

A woman I know spends most of her time thinking about how much she hates her thighs. She can give you a detailed report on what is wrong with them. She forgets all the places those legs have taken her, all the miles they have walked for her. It doesn’t occur to her that when she gets up in the middle of the night to pee, those very thighs walk her to the toilet. Spend more time appreciating what you’ve got— a heart that beats, a way to pick up your cup of coffee, the eyes that see that cup and know what color it is. Blessings abound.

There are two kinds of people in this world – those who believe there is enough to go around, and those who don’t. Here is an example: If Margo is leaning up against the car kissing her boyfriend, and I think how nice that must feel, do I try to steal Margo’s boyfriend or do I go out and get my own boyfriend? I go out and get myself a boyfriend. I don’t need to steal Margo’s. I know that there is enough to go around. An old Native American woman was asked why she was always so happy. She said that she has two wolves in her heart and they are both hungry— one wolf is angry and evil, the other wolf is filled with love, and that's the only one she feeds.

The biggest life lesson explained in a 3 line story’. 1042 friends on Facebook, 205 friends Whatsapp Contacts, and there was only one who was waiting outside the I.C.U. and to whom I owe every single breathe of mine. ‘My wife’ And trust me, your friends, your relatives, your close ones are there for you till the time they stand to gain something from you. ‘It’s only your family that’ll be there for you whatever the situation might be.The situation may differ from person to person as it is not a universal truth to be accepted. But this is just my conclusion that as one moves towards the darker phase of life, the people around the person scatters!

Once upon a time, in a village lived a stonecutter. He use to cut stones, sell them and earn food for himself and his family. One day, while returning from stone cutting business he got extremely tired. At the same time a king's troops rallied. Stonecutter thought how lucky king is, he has nothing to do. No hardwork require and there is so much of leisure in his life. He wished for being a king. His wish accepted. He was made king. When he was king, again he rallied with his troops. He was wearing a heavy metallic crown on his head. That day sun was scorching and it irritated the stonecutter due to heat. He could not remove it as it was pride of a king.

He thought sun is so powerful, and wished for being a sun. His wish accepted and he was made Sun. He enjoyed being sun, the most powerful and provide sunlight to livings on earth. But then monsoon arrived and the black clouds overpowered sun's rays. All the rays of powerful sun was diminished by dense clouds. Again the stonecutter thought clouds are more powerful than sun. So he wished for being clouds. His wished accepted and he was made cloud.

On becoming clouds he was very happy. He used to block the sun's rays and shower rains. People on earth felt very happy. He felt happy too. Untill a strong mountain came into way of cloud. The cloud collided with heavy mountain and was bursted. Then stonecutter thought mountains are most powerful and he wished for being a giant mountain. His wish accepted and he was made mountain. On being mountain he felt ecstatic and enjoyed his immense power and strength.

One day one stonecutter came and started breaking mountains for stones. Days after days he continued to break mountain stones. And one day mountain was broken. Then he thought that stone cutter can break such a giant mountain. He is the most powerful. His wish accepted and he was made stonecutter. Result is whatever you are. You are powerful , strong and rich. Never compare yourself with anyone else. People who compare themselves are always sad with something or the other. So be yourself. Live life. Life is too short to complain about it. Cheers!