The Power of Extending Grace

Cancel culture is heralded by some and loathed by others. And while TV shows, countless celebrities and product advertisements have been on the chopping block, the slippery slope of cancel culture has made its way into the classroom. News outlets recently reported that Alabama officials received complaints from parents who expressed concerns that Black History Month was celebrated in schools. Sigh.

As a working mom, I strive to raise global citizens, so it's important that my children know how African Americans are breaking barriers and blazing trails in our nation. And not only because I have brown children, but because I believe that all children should have a complete view of history, culture and perspective. I want my children to think critically and understand the challenging parts of our country's history. The Census Bureau reports that America will be majority diverse by 2045, so why not prepare today by broadening our viewpoints?

That's why I was so disheartened to hear that more than a dozen Historically Black Colleges and Universities received bomb threats as Black History Month kicked off this year. These institutions were started because Black students were routinely denied admission to predominately White institutions (PWIs) and faced prejudice, harassment and the threat of death when attempting to integrate PWIs. This deplorable act is a reminder about the importance of safe spaces and why HBCUs are needed more than ever.

Still, in spite of these unfortunate events, there is hope. Numerous organizations, including LinkedIn, are doing their part to curate conversations centering the Black experience, amplify Black voices, celebrate Black bodies and educate the next generation.

Likewise, creators like Lynae Vanee (_@lyneezy) are sharing commentary that educates us with nuanced views that help us reflect and grow.

So, in a world where you could be many things, be gracious. See my humanity, practice empathy and proactively seek to understand someone else's experience, especially during Black History Month. Also, extend grace to yourself. Realize that you may not be the expert on every topic, but use that insight to educate yourself, practice radical listening, and intentionally learning about topics that you're less familiar with. There's a whole global pandemic happening, so let's be good to ourselves and one another.

Reflection: How are you extending grace or educating yourself during Black History Month? Comment below and let me know.

Stay Connected: Desiree Coleman-Fry advances equity and empowers women through speaking, writing and curating the #womenworkwell series for #workingmoms as a part of the #licreatoraccelerator program. Connect online: @desireescoleman and add your voice to the conversation. #blackhistorymonth #diversityequityinclusion