The Proven Tools I Use to Help Clients Build Unshakeable Confidence

The Proven Tools I Use to Help Clients Build Unshakeable Confidence

Imagine this: You're in a meeting, a brilliant idea sparks in your mind. Just as you're about to share... your voice shrinks, the words get stuck in your throat. That sinking feeling in your stomach, the fear of judgement – it's a struggle so many of us know too well.

As a confidence coach, I witness the same confidence-shaking patterns time and again.

Let's break down the three key levels on which your confidence can shake and the powerful tools you can use to shift them:

1. On an Emotional Level:

Anxiety, worry, and fear shut down bold ideas and make it tough to express yourself. Here's what you can do:

Body Awareness: Pinpoint where those emotions hit you physically. Focused breathing and relaxation techniques release that tension, making space for clarity.

Emotional Labeling: Giving your fear a name ("This is performance anxiety") lessens its grip.


2. On a Mindset Level:

Fear of failure or judgement makes you play it safe, missing out on amazing opportunities. Here's how to break free:

Fear Exploration: Dig into the root of the fear. Understanding the 'why' is the first step to conquering it.

Worst-Case Scenario: What's the absolute worst that could happen? Playing this out often reveals it's not as bad as you think.

Reframing: Transform "What if I fail?" into "What if I succeed?" This positive focus fuels action.


3. On a Belief Level:

Deep-seated beliefs about your self-worth can sabotage your full potential. Let's challenge them:

Evidence Gathering: Build a strong case AGAINST those limiting beliefs. Remember your successes and the strengths you possess!

Cognitive Restructuring: Replace those negative thought loops with realistic appraisals of your capabilities.

Inner Child Work: For deep-rooted beliefs, exploring childhood experiences can be key to lasting change.


Are you ready to tackle your biggest confidence hurdle head-on? Book your free 30-minute discovery call with me!

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NAVEED SHAHZAD

x LUMS Lead Trainer | Corporate Training Expert | TedX Speaker | Global Talent Developer | Learning Strategist | AI Awareness Mentor

8mo

excellent all 3 points. It really reflects what has happened to me in the past and i really struggled with that. Many thanks for sharing this really amazing ariticle.

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Kaley Chu

TEDx, Keynote & Motivational Speaker | Author | Business Coach for speakers and aspiring speakers | Founder & CEO at 100 Lunches & 100 Speakers| 40 under 40 Business Elite | People Connector

10mo

It's incredible how you shed light on the struggles we all face with confidence. Your insights are truly empowering. 💜

Tyrone Tellis

Corporate Sales and PR

10mo

Never really had that, I think the nervousness is helpful as we are more careful how we say things? I rush in, all guns blazing.

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