Quality of Life: Work pressure and Mental health

A Delicate Balance in an Unpredictable World. A continuation of the A to Z series of Mental Health.

Have you ever felt like no matter how much you achieve, it never feels like enough? Every promotion or pay raise feels like a stepping stone to the next; somehow, you’re more exhausted than fulfilled.

Life is undoubtedly unfair and unpredictable. We all must have heard about the tragic story of 26-year-old EY employee Anna Sebastian, who allegedly lost her to excessive work pressure. Her story made me pause and reflect on my own life and the lives of many others like me.

Every day, we wake up with a purpose: thinking about performing better at our workplace and eager for that next project, promotion, or pay raise. The day starts with enthusiasm and ambition, but by the time we finish, we’re physically and mentally drained. And so the cycle repeats.

The pressure to be always productive

In today’s professional world, we are frequently judged by our productivity, efficiency, and determination to succeed. But at what cost? Like numerous others, I have been trapped in the rigorous pursuit of success — prioritizing meeting deadlines, reaching goals, and exceeding expectations. Society has fostered the idea that our worth is linked to our level of accomplishment. This concept is not only dangerous but also harmful.

The tragic loss of Anna is a sobering reminder that unchecked work pressure can deteriorate our quality of life. It highlights a question many of us are afraid to ask: How much of our life are we living when we constantly chase deadlines?

It’s not just Work

It’s not always just work, though. Many of us also face personal struggles that add to the daily burden. Family problems, relationship conflicts, financial worries, or health concerns can create an additional layer of stress that sometimes becomes too heavy to carry. Sometimes, these issues steam beneath the surface, unnoticed by our colleagues, families, and even our closest friends, making us feel isolated and alone in our struggle.

When work and personal life become sources of stress, it can feel like there’s no escape. The pressure mounts until, for some, the mental and emotional toll becomes unbearable. It’s in these moments of hopelessness that people might feel driven to take drastic steps — such as considering suicide — not because they want to die but because they don’t see another way out of their overwhelming pain.

It’s important to understand that individuals considering or taking extreme measures aren’t weak or selfish. Many of them may actually deeply value life. They want to live, but the pressure, the burst of mental health bubbles, and the daily struggles can cloud their judgment, making it impossible to see a future where things improve. They may feel trapped in such moments, desperate for a solution that seems beyond reach.

Life Beyond Work

While work is an important part of our existence, it is not, and should not be, the sum total of our lives.

A fulfilling life includes much more—family, friends, health, personal growth, and, most importantly, happiness. However, the imbalance we face today often leads to neglect in these areas, which should be just as important, if not more so.

We rush through meals, skip workouts, postpone vacations, and lose touch with loved ones to meet the ever-growing demands of our jobs. But success in the workplace means little if it comes at the expense of our well-being.

Sometimes, even when we try to step back, guilt creeps in. The pressure to remain productive, especially in a competitive world, can make moments of rest feel like a wasted opportunity. I’ve felt this guilt personally, thinking that if I’m not working or pushing myself to the limit, I’m somehow falling behind.

I often push myself too hard, disregarding the signs of my declining mental and physical health. Some may see this as overly ambitious, but it’s how we’ve been raised. The constant pressure to fit in and the belief in “survival of the fittest” has taken a toll on all of us. We feel the need to prove ourselves to others and ourselves. This pressure keeps building until one day, everything falls apart, leaving us in ruins.

Since childhood, most of our parents have pushed us to study hard and excel for a good life. Society tells us we are worthless if we don’t make money, own a house, car, etc. Sadly, 90 percent of us buy into this idea and end up on a path to a slow demise.

It’s not always the materialistic demands that need to be fulfilled. Sometimes, you need to reflect on the demands that your body, mind and soul has for you.

Life will always be unpredictable. Tragic stories like Anna Sebastian remind us that nothing is guaranteed—not tomorrow, not our health, not even our success. But while we can’t control the uncertainties, we can choose how we live today.

Focusing on what truly matters. Our well-being, relationships, and passions ensure that we live a meaningful life no matter what happens. It’s time we redefine success, not by how much we accomplish at work but by the quality of our everyday lives.

Society often downplays or stigmatizes mental health struggles, making it harder for people to reach out for support. Instead of addressing their emotional needs, many feel they must continue “pushing through” their pain — leading to tragic outcomes. This is why we must encourage a culture of openness, where people can speak about their emotional challenges without fear of judgment. Be it to the manager, parents, friends, spouse, or a therapist. We must foster a culture where taking a break, dropping a year, or choosing peace over hustle is not considered lazy, unproductive, or wrong.

Are you empathetic enough?

In light of the pressures we all face, it’s essential to create environments where people feel supported, not just in their work but in their personal struggles. Empathy is the key. We never know the battles someone is fighting, whether at work or in their private life. We must recognize the signs of burnout, stress, and mental health issues and create spaces for conversation and healing.

It’s heartbreaking to think that some may feel forced to choose between life and suffering. But by promoting a culture of openness, compassion, and understanding, we can prevent such tragedies and ensure everyone feels seen, heard, and valued.

This is a reflection I needed, and I hope it resonates with others who might be on the same path. Take a step back, breathe, and remember — work is part of life, but it’s not all.

Have you faced similar pressures in your life or workplace? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below.

PS: Rest in Peace, Anna. Sadly, the world couldn't see you more!

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