Reflections from the Dear Leader Conference with Dr. Sam Adeyemi

Over the weekend, I had the incredible opportunity to attend the Dear Leader conference in Toronto, headlined by none other than Dr. Sam Adeyemi . As he stepped onto the stage, memories from about a decade ago flooded my mind, taking me back to the first time I attended one of his leadership sessions.

Sometime in 2015, I registered for the face-to-face segment of Dr. Sam Adeyemi coaching program tagged: "Winning with Innovative Thinking," held in Ikeja, Lagos. It was a small conference with a fee of about 5,000–10,000 Naira, but it was a priceless investment. Despite receiving his success coaching emails regularly, the in-person experience was transformative. His messages about changing your thoughts to change your life have profoundly shaped my journey.

When I saw that Dr. Sam Adeyemi was coming to Toronto, I knew I had to attend. For me, it was more than just listening and taking notes; it was about reassessing myself and relearning for my next phase. Being in that room was a strong yet subtle reminder of my journey, and it gave me a boost of gratitude. Dr. Sam embodies continuous reinvention and growth, having earned a master's and a doctorate in leadership. He is now a sought-after consultant for global leaders and presidents, exemplifying the pinnacle of leadership expertise.

Here are some key insights I gained from the conference:

• Adversity fuels potential: Success is often misconstrued as a trouble-free journey, but Dr. Sam's personal stories of pushing through some difficult situations in growing his ministry and company, Success Power, over the last 30 years are a testament to resilience. Adversities can unlock our greatest potential.
• Attitude is more important than facts: We cannot control external circumstances, much like we cannot control the wind. However, we can control our internal state—our attitudes and emotions. Dr. Sam illustrated this with a sailboat metaphor: while we cannot control the weather, we can set our sails (our attitudes) to navigate effectively. By focusing on what we can control, we navigate life's storms more effectively.
• You are the sum total of your thoughts: The information we consume shapes our mental health. Just as food influences our physical health, our thoughts shape our minds. To change our lives, we must first change our thoughts.
• Fix the foundation, don't just add to it: Many change efforts fail because we try to build on shaky foundations. Just as adding floors to an unstable house leads to collapse, true transformation requires strengthening our foundational beliefs and attitudes.
• Inner change precedes outer change: Our external reality is a reflection of our internal state. Deep thinking, reflection, and meditation are crucial for aligning our internal and external worlds. Leadership begins with self-awareness and introspection.
• Help others to succeed: At the highest level of success, our goal should be to help others succeed. Leadership is about serving and uplifting others, not just personal gain.
• Lead yourself first: The hardest part of leadership is leading oneself. Focus on your heart, for it is the true magnet that attracts success. Change the conversations you have with yourself to shift your reality.
• Embrace failure as an event, not a definition: Failure is not a reflection of your worth but an event from which to learn. Cultivate your skills to exceptional levels and don't fear failure—use it as a stepping stone to success.

Dr. Sam Adeyemi's teachings have once again ignited a passion for leadership within me. His wisdom continues to inspire me to lead with purpose, resilience, and a focus on continuous self-improvement. As I reflect on these insights, I'm reminded that leadership is a journey of constant growth and reinvention. I'm grateful for the opportunity to learn from such a remarkable leader.

If you're seeking inspiration for personal growth, I highly recommend exploring Dr. Sam Adeyemi's work and events.

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PS.. The best part of my day was i go to spend this moment with my #sisterfriend Temilola Adebisi .