Remember “Summer Vacation”?
By Paige Cohen, Senior Editor
This time of the year makes me nostalgic for what my teachers used to call “summer vacation.” I remember being a little kid on the last day of school, waiting for the final bell to release me. The air in the classroom was always a little too warm, and the plastic desk chair stuck to my legs. I’d slide my feet against the carpet—a sad, dull blue color—bored out of my mind because all I had to do was wait.
Once the clock struck three, a long chime would ring through the overhead speaker. That meant, for the next three months, I was free of all serious commitments. No homework, no tests. No morning alarms. For the next 90 days I would be on summer vacation.
At least this is how I remember it. Back then, I probably took the break for granted, not yet knowing, as an adult, vacations would look different. Today, I can’t imagine taking off more than a week or two at once. While it’s logistically possible, I know I’d spend the extra time worried about what was happening at work, which emails and meetings I was missing, and the commitments I’d soon need to catch up on.
I realize this isn’t a healthy mindset, especially when it takes eight days of vacation for most people to feel fully relaxed. Sometimes I wonder: If I can’t really disconnect and use my vacations to be present with family and friends, am I setting myself up for burnout? Imagine how much stronger I’d be if I could tap into the carefree attitude I had as a kid. I’d return to work that much more rested, resilient, and focused.
Of course, I recognize this is much harder to do as an adult. We have countless personal and professional responsibilities to meet. Vacation requires more intention, planning, and balance.
This year, a goal of mine is to try and find more balance—to treat my time off as respectfully as I do my time on. It will require breaking unhealthy habits (like checking email on vacation) and practice, but I know I’ll be a mentally healthier person if I can learn to do it.
Here are a few articles I’m turning to for help. If you can relate, maybe you’ll find them useful.
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Don’t Work on Vacation. Seriously.
Research shows it's not worth it.
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How to Forget About Work When You’re Not Working
You need a plan.
How to Minimize Stress Before, After, and During a Vacation
Start prepping weeks ahead of time.
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4moThank you for sharing.