The silence and hunger of connection for MEN.....

Many beautiful men are crying out in silence for intimate connection, unsure where to turn, to share, to feel honored, revered and held within a safe space.

Some feel drawn to the gatherings of men for support and for some this may not suit their personality and some men are more drawn to that of a strong woman. There is no right and wrong when the boundaries are clear, we will be drawn to the energies that resonate with our souls and that will be the place to feel safe to do the inner work.

In 2018, the shifts are going to be rapid, can you feel it? 

I am ready and it began in Dec 2017….

I saw more men drawn to my work in 2017, and so I embrace the calling.

There is no room for complacency, for second-guessing and the most magical of all, the Veil will be lifted from the Mask of the surface level BS that many are unconsciously hiding behind.

I observe humanity and mostly observe my immediate environment and what stands out is the number of men that are seeking deep connection and honestly, it is confusing to what women want. I can only imagine, as I am a woman with a strong masculine and feminine side, it is confusing how to navigate the playing field when connecting with the opposite sex. Even once intentions are known, a man has to learn how to navigate with a woman that has done the inner work, she is ready to move forward and yes, it is vital that he is able to hold his own with a powerful presence.

For a strong woman, there is nothing more desirable than self–confidence, compassion for all beings and living his purpose with passion. To be living your truth and to be in your power as a man, to witness a man living, owning it and expressing that is Sexy and a quality high on the list for an evolving-evolved woman that is also playing at a high conscious level.

This requires ‘Getting your stuff in order and doing the inner work!’

The inner work happens behind closed doors, mind-body-spirit, on a daily basis is about creating a consistent new habit, with no other intention, then to maximize and master self! The rest will follow at the right time and I am here this support others on this journey. Sadly, many men are unappreciated, undervalued and not respected by women.

Simply, it comes down to self-worth. 

Many have become obedient and not living their truth.

The GREATEST underlying thought is:

UNWORTHINESS, and not feeling deserving or good enough!

We can always make it about the other person, that is BS, and part of the illusion that most men and women are living within, this is about integrity, faith in self, self-discipline, and awareness of one’s inner state and the impact that has on others.

This means to get out the way of you, the rightness and the part of the personality that always has to be right, say hello to your little friend the ‘ego. To witness a man in this space is sexy, endearing and powerful and the key to cultivating the most powerful relationships moving into 2018. To take this journey takes courage and a willingness to be seen in all the vulnerable rawness of you, even when that is an imperfect version you see in that moment.

To OWN out stuff...no matter how painful.

I recall in 2016, having an experience where I felt the power of masculine presence within a room, in which one was the most vulnerable states I could be. I faced my greatest FEAR, of being seen and at the beginning, I was shaking and close to tears of vulnerability. As the process of the massage demonstration went on, they stood around me, holding hands and SPACE, a circle of presence as I opened, surrendered through my fears of being seen, naked while being massaged. It was a yoni massage, and I have never felt so loved and accepted in my real naked rawness. They held space as if I was a Queen, as I was. I cried at the end, deep waves of pain left my body, and I healed lifetimes of shame, guilt, self-loathing and inner judgment. I embraced my beauty and shifted my focus and healed lifetimes and this lead to being inspired to guide others down this path of healing, both men, and women, my hands, presence, and energy a gift.

I felt nourished during the massage, safe, held and honored, even revered in that present moment. I saw that men have this capacity when given the opportunity, and sadly they have been cut down, hurt and damaged by women. I also see how still many women are hurting women and I am also on a mission to be part of the collective forces in healing that, to bridge the gap. On the table that day I cried openly, huge energetic releases from my being and felt the feeling of high on cloud nine, say hello to the Feminine Sovereignty. So many times, past, my body dishonored, affection rejected, pinned down, my cried silenced all because I hated my body, felt shame, self-disgust and was beating up on myself. Added to that the daily dysmorphia of my beautiful body, which NOW I LOVE and ADORE.

It was not sexual, it was sensual and that is the life force and PRANIC energy that we each contain... it is the JUICE of the SOUL. This was powerful healing teachings and much what was used in ancient times as part of their mind-body and soul offerings.

That was part of my inner healing, and since have gone on to shift others in their own re-connection with self. So many others are feeling guilt and shame behind closed doors. Old shame for hurting another, the guilt of an affair guilt or hate of feelings… wow, the list goes on. The shame of how they are to the opposite sex, fears of the past, fears of ‘not being good enough and high jacked by comparison with past lovers’.

No one is perfect, and it is time to wake-up to our humanness…and see the LOVE within. To be seen, be heard and be respectful as the human we deserve! It begins with self.

You are perfect the way you are, we all have a ‘click out there’, and that will only happen once we truly connect with self, in our most raw, real and vulnerable versions. So before desiring that relationship, turn the attention upon self. In fact, we have many clicks, each the perfect teachers and guides, until we choose to be with one, or many, and again that is a personal choice.

I am here to serve, to guide the confusing playing field of women and create an expanded possibility of you stepping into, embodying and magnifying your greatness as an evolving-evolved MAN.

TOUCH has been lost, dirtied up and shamed. There is also the MIND aspect of meditation and awareness, the BODY aspect by placing the body into yoga/movement positions of discomfort, to release the layers of old pain. Touch has many layers and our skin is the largest organ of the body...... Touch has been lost!

We cannot get walked over- it is what we allow

We cannot be disempowered- we chose to give out power away

We are not the obedient puppy dog- we are a man with purpose…

Dishonour comes from dishonor within the self.

Women need your PRESENCE, your calm, loving and strong presence. We need your ability to HOLD space, to speak and express your RAW truth, to be the strong presence to lean into, to be willing to be open and honest, to catch us when we fall, to SPEAK your worth and never get walked over, to fall and allow us to hold you in that space, to be the powerful man you came here to be and to be REAL.

To fight fire with fire all you will get is smoke, and I am here to INSPIRE you a way moving forward as a peaceful warrior and BE the master of the Electro-Magnetic man you are, so you can dance that dance of energies with EASE.

2018 is less tolerant of BS, it's lifting the veil and I will teach you a way to the women are melting back into their feminine with your strong masculine presence.

I am here to tip the scales, so there is an ABUNDANCE of men. Many women are desiring and wondering where they are... they are here, it is the veils that are hiding their magnificence. It also may be the veils that they are still wearing placed there by well-meaning women and PAST judgments, shame, and blame placed upon one another and also by society ... hmmm.

This is part of the (R)evolution in Relating with one another...

Let's bring more LOVE and deeper intimacy into the world, it is the greatest love affair of self that is the most fulfilling.

Are you ready?

Blessings and Raw truth,

Zoe x

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