Still Climbing: The Ways Women Still Have It Super-Hard At Work

Still Climbing: The Unseen Barriers Holding Women Back

Sometimes, I take for granted the fact that life is getting easier for women.

Because it is getting easier for me.

But I am not typical.

I am over 50. Quite free from the social pressures young women face.

I am also an independent business owner who is not answerable to anyone (just my clients). I choose my own work hours. And while I think I work hard enough, it is mostly on my own terms.

I work in a field I love. (Love, love, love).

And, after 30 odd years of working with so many organisations and so many situations, I think I can legitimately claim some street cred.

And unlike most women who must balance family and work. I don't.

At least not anymore.

My kids are all grown up living their own adult lives. At this stage of life, I am as free as a woman can be.

So sometimes, I make the mistake of projecting my own experience to other women and believing that life is getting better for women at work.

And I am probably wrong.

I. Progress in Gender Parity Seems to Have Stagnated

Each summer, the World Economic Forum releases its "Gender Parity" report.

It makes for some fascinating reading as this study captures data from 146 countries and studies them for the extent to which men and women in the same country have access to opportunities in 4 areas: education, health, economic opportunities and political empowerment.

The report begins with the rather depressing finding that at the rate we are going--we are at least 5 generations or over 134 years to gender parity!

134 years!!

Last year (globally) the index moved from 68.4% to 68.5%.

That's +0.1%! (That's it?)

A snails pace--if that.

While no country has completely closed the gender gap, Iceland routinely tops the list at 93%. The global average in 2024 is 68.5% (see below).

Pretty much all over the world access to education and health has improved significantly. These are of course the lead indicators. What has changed far more slowly is access to economic opportunity and political empowerment.

Tomorrows battles will be fought here.

Today, while women 'receive' education and healthcare, what they do not have is a 'say' in the worlds they live in. And this is true of both the economic world and the political one.

Gender Parity in India

The picture in India, is similar.

But also worse.

There is so much to celebrate in terms of access to education and to healthcare (see below). Government initiatives, advocacy bodies, private and public schools, have all combined to create a success story.

The shift in cultural expectations is also real. Chances are, your help today will be as enthusiastic about sending their girls to school, as their boys. (Think of how much this has changed)

And these shifts cut across socio-economic categories. Even low income households want their girls to study. Financial incentives, and social campaigns ('beti bachao, beti padhao')--each have had an impact.

Yet, when it comes to economic opportunities and the gender income parity ratio, we lag far behind. (In fact, the economic opportunities available to women place us at 142 of 146 countries).

The largest gaps are in labour force participation.

In fact over the past few decades this was a never ending mystery--why on earth would our women's labour participation rates keep falling?

And then decision making roles (of any kind).

The number of women in any decision-making capacity at all--(legislators, senior officials and managers), is abysmally low (at just 12%)!

While women are being educated, and receiving college degrees, they lack influence.

Women in India today have the education. What they do not have is any real 'say' in the worlds they live in.

There are far too few women in any position of decision making.

Forget senior leadership, let's take any kind of even managerial role.

And while we have had 1 woman prime minister and 2 women presidents, this has not translated into enough women in the parliament or in ministerial positions.

This despite the reservations in the Panchayati Raj Institutions.

II. Across the World, Working Women Face Mental Health Challenges

Now this is a tricky one.

My data points here begin with Deloitte's women at work report 2024.

Women across the world are continuing to report poor mental health outcomes. And despite the increasing conversation around mental health, they also feel that owning up to these mental health challenges will lead to their being taken much less seriously at work.

So they suffer on.

Quietly.

So why do women feel so stressed at work?

This is where it gets complicated. A quick research reveals a very long list.

Let's just take 3 to get started.

1. Micro-agressions.
2. Work-life Balance Pressures
3. The Persistent Glass Ceiling

1. Micro-agressions

What are micro-agressions? Those tiny statements or actions that convey to a person that they do not quite belong there, or that they are not perhaps good enough.

Often un-intentional, they nevertheless take a significant toll, when experienced day after day, year after year. Relentlessly.

2. Work-Life Balance Pressures

It may be 2024, but women are still doing far more of the work-life balancing than our male colleagues.

Here's a quick look at how the simple act of supporting women with childcare goes a long way in improving their odds of becoming a manager.

3. The Persistent Glass Ceiling

Imagine being driven to succeed, yet needing to prove yourself each day.

Imagine next that you are left out of the networks that count for careers. You do not even learn about the opportunities that your male colleagues get to know so readily.

Next imagine, the sense of futility when you see almost no women in your own leadership team.

Get the picture?

The persistent glass ceiling adds to workplace stress that women experience because it is so fundamentally dis-empowering.

Conclusion:

In the end--all is not well with women in the workplace.

The experience of

--not having access to opportunities

--not having 'say' even when one gets access

--cultural pressures of guilt

--relentless flow of micro-agressions

--holding more than their fair share of family responsibility

And,

--yet seeing a glass ceiling that limits their dreams is real.

All adds up to a picture of stress and unease.

In the end, the data tells the truth.

I was entirely wrong. Life may be getting better for women. But only some women. And only for some part of their career.

While the workplace has changed significantly over the past few decades, it really hasn't changed enough.

Women still face far more stressors at work, and have to actively and thoughtfully 'choose to go to work' each morning.

Is it any surprise then that so many drop out when they can afford to. When it all becomes 'too much'.

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