Strengthening the relations is a result of our care

We are in relationship with many people in our life and each relationship is precious to us for some relation.ships remain formal and not become close over the years, but those we want to nurture further and strengthen these relations we need to put in extra efforts and care. What we can do to make our relationship more strong? To make your relationship more strong, beautiful, ecstatic, etc, you do not have to do “magic”, or you do not need to spend thousands or lakhs of rupees to make yourself & your partner believe that the your “relationship” is special and that is the beauty of a true relationship.

Nowadays, people tend to buy expensive gifts, clothes, accessories for their special one's, people want to have huge celebration parties only , they don't feel loved by simply sharing a piece of bread together, or helping each other You just have to be committed or devoted, have the desire to share something that you can offer. Do not be bothered about what you'll get or what you are getting.

Do Care about each other's feelings deeply, show empathy when a dear one tells you something seriously. Don't hurt the person in any way, not by your words & actions. Even if you feel something is not right, or you counter problems, friction(dis-agreements, fights etc), find always a better way to convey your matter/problems.Share your experiences, thoughts, feelings, daily life with the person you care about. It help's the other person to understand you more deeply and it develops a better understanding b/w you. I am not saying you to share each and everything about yourself, you can keep your secrets, which you aren't comfortable sharing with the person.

Moreover, do not judge the person straight away, based on sudden events like mishaps, fights, dis-agreements, etc) . Do not label things going in your relationship too quickly, it shows one's immature behaviour. So, be more matured in a relationship. Don't force your own opinions, beliefs, ideas, etc on others. Don't take the person you love for granted. Love should bring peace & freedom in your life, not restrictions.

 The key to having a good relation with many people lies in the way you are interacting with them.Obviously,if you seem genuinely interested in the other person’s problem,then that person will obviously have his/her unconscious mind telling them that there is this one person who ought to help others genuinely without some thing in return. Be genuinely interested in helping others ought to be the first point over here.

Quite surprisingly however, this also adds up while maintaining a good relation with more people. Imagine a distant friend of yours recalling something or someone,to be more appropriate,by their exact names.How much significant will that be in your life? A lot of right things to do. Remembering other people names,important occasions,how so ever close or not you might be to them,will make you stand out from others who come only when they need something.

Last but not leas, I believe that the key to maintain a good relationship comes with a clear conscience. If your conscience is crystal clear, go ahead and make the relationship stronger with your good behaviour to others and do make them feel special and important. Even your pet dog needs to be cuddled, taken out for a walk, given good food and importance and love and care what you give to your near and dear ones. They will respond equally if not more. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre

Keep in touch with them,in any way possible,be it minimal,but at least you should be in touch with them.

In the end,I guess you got your answer in the first point itself.

Be interested in helping others genuinely. Be a good friend.Have small talks once in a while.And there you are!!