Thanksgiving Reflections: Choose What Matters

As we gather around tables today, I want to take a moment to thank each of you. This community—built brick by brick through your engagement, comments, and support—has become something far more meaningful than I could have ever imagined. What started as a chaotic stream of therapeutic rants and musings on various platforms has transformed into a vibrant exchange of ideas, largely thanks to the thoughtful readers who’ve chosen to join me here. To each of you who has invested your time—and especially those who’ve supported the mission financially—you’ve given me the incredible gift of purpose. I don’t take it for granted. Thank you.

Lately, the cultural narrative seems intent on making holidays into battlegrounds. News outlets tell us to skip Thanksgiving if the election or Uncle Rob’s political opinions make us uncomfortable. Social media is flooded with predictions of ruined dinners and ideological warfare across dining tables. But I reject that framing entirely.

Thanksgiving isn’t a time to stoke divisions; it’s a moment to reflect on what unites us. As I look back on the past year, I’m reminded that some faces won’t be at the table this year—friends lost, family members gone, absences that cast long shadows. Those empty chairs carry a weight far heavier than any political disagreement could.

We all have quirks that drive us nuts—whether it’s Grandpa or an uncle rehashing the same story for the 100th time or the millennial cousin lobbing a sly political jab—but one day, those frustrations will be the things we miss most. We don’t know how much time we’ll have with those we love, and letting fleeting disagreements overshadow that precious time is a choice—one we may regret.

As George Washington said, “Let us raise a standard to which the wise and honest can repair; the rest is in the hands of God.”

Thanksgiving isn’t about capitulating or suppressing your beliefs—it’s about prioritizing what matters most. It’s about recognizing the fragility of life and savoring the moments that, one day, will only exist as memories.

So, take this day as an opportunity. Laugh too loudly. Let the conversation meander. Savor the food, the company, and yes—even the quirks. Thanksgiving is a reminder that life is fleeting - memento mori, and our time with loved ones is a gift. Use it wisely.

To those of you celebrating today, I wish you joy, connection, and gratitude—and if you can manage it, a side of pumpkin pie without letting emotions or petty disagreements overshadow the moment. Cheers to a holiday filled with peace, love, and a reminder that family comes first.

Happy Thanksgiving.

MK

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