Thriving In Toxicity: Forgotten Tactics to Cope with Toxic People!

Thriving In Toxicity: Forgotten Tactics to Cope with Toxic People!


Which organizations they are in?

In any organization, whether it's families, businesses, and communities, encountering toxic people is an unfortunate reality for many of us!

Whether it's dealing with negativity, conflict, or gossip, navigating these challenging dynamics can be draining and stressful.

But fear not, for there are tactics you can employ to cope with toxic people while maintaining your sanity, professionalism, and vitality.


What most people already know?

There are good popular tactics that are widely discussed in classrooms, offices, and social media, which can be described as proactive and solution-focused methods for managing and addressing toxic behaviour.

  • Set Boundaries
  • Practice Self-Care
  • Seek Support
  • Communicate Effectively
  • Focus on What You Can Control
  • Practice Empathy
  • Document Incidents
  • Know When to Seek Help


'Immediate Gratification' is good too!

But, few people talk about the other 'hidden gems' which can be described as coping mechanisms aimed at minimizing the impact of toxic behaviour and maintaining personal well-being.

This is very relevant because, sometimes we desire and need to get immediate relief, and have high adaptability to different dynamic situations and personal preferences.

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Only at least 6 simple things to know before you leave this article! 😉


1) Practice Emotional Detachment.

Instead of internalizing or reacting emotionally to toxic behavior, practice detachment by viewing their actions objectively.

This allows you to maintain your composure and respond calmly, without getting entangled in their negativity.


2) Leverage Humor and Levity.

Injecting humor into interactions with toxic people can help diffuse tense situations and create a more positive atmosphere.

By lightening the mood, you can mitigate the impact of their toxicity on your own well-being.


3) Build Alliances.

Identify like-minded persons who share your perspective on the toxic dynamics in your environment.

Forming alliances can provide a support system and create a united front for addressing issues collectively.


4) Channel Energy into Productivity.

Instead of allowing toxic interactions to drain your energy, channel that energy into productive endeavors.

Focus on excelling in your work, pursuing personal development opportunities, and achieving your goals despite the challenges.


5) Practice Radical Acceptance.

Acceptance doesn't mean condoning or tolerating toxic behavior, but rather acknowledging the reality of the situation without resistance.

By accepting the presence of toxic people and focusing on what you can control, you free yourself from unnecessary stress and frustration.


6) Create Physical and Mental Distance.

If possible, create physical and mental distance from toxic people by rearranging your space, adjusting your schedule, or finding moments of solitude throughout the day.

This separation can help minimize exposure to negativity and preserve your peace of mind.


Remember, you are not alone in dealing with toxic people, and there are resources and support available to help you navigate these challenging situations.         
Stay resilient, focus on your own well-being, and don't let toxic behavior derail your personal & professional journey.        
You've got this!        



Plot twist! 😯

What if, YOU are the toxic person, in their perspective?

Who is the real problem?

You might be the only person with functional eyes, while everyone else has dysfunctional eyes, and they all blame you for causing disruption of their 4Ps (people, processes, places, performances)!

But, are your eyes truly functional, as YOU believe?


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