Is it Time to Break Up with Your Career?
Julian Reid
Award-winning Career Ownership Coach / Small Business Owner Helping YOU Explore Career Ownership Possibilities!
In the realm of personal growth and professional development, an intriguing parallel has emerged:
An analogy to personal relationships can teach us valuable lessons about falling "out-of-love" with our jobs and finding new, more fulfilling career paths. Career transitions are increasingly more common in our ever-evolving job market, so understanding how to navigate this upheaval is crucial for personal and professional satisfaction.
The State of Career Dissatisfaction
A recent Gallup Poll reveals that only 34% of American workers reported being engaged in their jobs, while 16% were actively disengaged. A survey by Indeed found that 52% of respondents experienced burnout; that's up from 43% in a pre-COVID survey. LinkedIn’s Workforce Confidence Index revealed that 74% of professionals are interested in changing careers to find more meaningful work. Surveys in Canada report similar findings.
These statistics paint a clear picture: many professionals are dissatisfied with their current careers and are seeking change. But how can we approach this transition in a healthy, productive manner? This is where the parallels between relationship breakups and career transitions become particularly illuminating.
Lessons from Relationship Studies: Breaking Up with Your Career
Just as ending a romantic relationship requires emotional intelligence and self-reflection, so does transitioning from a career that no longer serves you. Here are some key lessons we can draw from relationship studies:
1. Recognize the Signs In relationships, recognizing the signs of incompatibility is crucial. The same applies to your career. Signs that it might be time to break up with your job include:
A study by the American Psychological Association found that 79% of employees experienced work-related stress in the month before the survey, with 44% reporting physical fatigue. Recognizing these signs early can prevent prolonged dissatisfaction and burnout.
2. Practice Self-Reflection Before ending a relationship, it’s important to reflect on your needs, values, and goals. The same principle applies to career transitions. Take time to consider:
3. Communicate Effectively In relationships, open and honest communication is key. Similarly, when considering a career change, it’s important to communicate effectively with your network, potential employers, and yourself. This includes:
4. Embrace Growth and Learning
Healthy relationships involve continuous growth and learning. The same principle applies to your career. Embrace opportunities for professional development, such as:
The World Economic Forum estimates that 50% of all employees will need reskilling by the end of 2025 due to the adoption of technology. AI, anyone? Embracing continuous learning is crucial for career growth and adaptability.
5. Allow Yourself to Grieve Just as the end of a relationship can bring feelings of loss and sadness, leaving a familiar career path can be emotionally challenging. It’s important to acknowledge these feelings and allow yourself time to process the transition.
A study published in the Journal of Vocational Behavior found that individuals who allow themselves to process emotions during career transitions are more likely to achieve successful outcomes.
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A Personal Note: I "broke up with my corporate career" in 2013, and now ...
This Fall, I was honored, humbled, and proud to named the recipient of:
The Entreprepreneur's Source 2024 POD Award!
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This recognition means a great deal to me, as it highlights and validates the very purpose of our work. Fellow nominees for the award were among my fellow coaches who supported me - and each other - in our work. No worthy achievement is ever a solo effort, so I want to thank my colleagues, and our TES staff, for their contributions to my success in serving our clients.
Our TES community provides a wonderful opportunity to help people explore career ownership. I look forward to continuing this deeply rewarding journey and celebrating more successes together!
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Julian Reid is a Career Ownership Coach™ with The Entrepreneur’s Source where his mission is to help professionals and executives identify and explore their career possibilities and lifestyle dreams. His complimentary service (like an executive recruiter) includes assessments, education, and coaching his clients to a “point-of-clarity” with their next career (ad)venture - on THEIR own terms; NOT someone else’s!
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