The Weekend Wind-Down #15 - June 2, 2024

A lot of this week was spent moving all of our belongings to a new unit 100 meters from our old one, that sounded good until I realized it meant we had to move everything ourselves instead of hiring movers. But we got through it and we are happily settling into this new place where we will likely stay for around a year. Here's this week's list:

What I read this week

One of my favorite topics is history and I enjoy books that delve into themes or currents that have flowed through the development of the world and how it stands today. Slouching Towards Utopia: An Economic History of the Twentieth Century tries to answer the question of why, with the massive increase in technological advancements and productivity, do we still seem to be plagued by inequality, economic hardships, and societies where many people are struggling. Although it is framed as an economic history, the book gives great context around the politics, technology, ideology, and human nature that has shaped the "long 20th century". This is an important topic as layoffs continue in many industries, fresh graduates struggle to find entry-level jobs, and many young people across the world are losing hope in ever owning a house. In the end, the author, Brad DeLong doesn't offer any clear-cut solutions or answers on how to improve things for everyone, but his explanations on how we have ended up here are rich and well worth a read.

What I'm thinking about brainstorming this weekend

Yesterday I got to attend the kickoff session for the TEDx Singapore event this year, where I plan to continue volunteering and supporting the community. There were around 12 of us there and the most fun and interesting part to me was when we were brainstorming for the event curation. We already had a topic, so we just started discussing it, what it meant to us, what we were curious about, ideas led to different viewpoints and sparked more ideas. It's been a long time since I attended an in-person brainstorming session and it was super fun to bounce ideas around, especially since we had a really diverse group of people at the table (there was a tangent on TikTok speak and Gen Alpha slang that went way over my head). I'm a big supporter of WFH and flexible work policies, but I'm thinking about how I can incorporate brainstorming sessions like this at work. Often we present or are presented an idea or plan, and then we go off to work on our piece of it alone until everything comes together and the project is done. But I think it would be useful to have more input in the ideation stage, especially cross-functionally.

Best gadget I'm using this weekend

When we moved into our new apartment we decided to upgrade our wifi and get the fasted option available. With 4 adults and a toddler in the house, especially with my wife and I having lots of video calls, we wanted to make sure we had enough bandwidth. With the new plan, we got an amazing new router, the TP-Link EB810v, unfortunately, the house is too long, so we had to get a second one, but it was super easy to connect with mesh and now the connection is lightning fast throughout the house. Only my phone is capable of using 6ghz, but even on my work device and ancient iMac the speeds are good enough to stream in 4k, so I'm hoping all my work calls will be stutter-free from here on out. I am looking forward to when we get our own place and I can set up a full smart home.

What I listened to this weekend

HBR On Leadership put out a great episode called How to Make Your Leadership More Visible with professor of leadership Suzanne Peterson. She explains how people usually give off one of two vibes, power behaviors or attractive behaviors. Neither one of these is good or bad in itself, but too much of either won't put you in the right light to be a strong leader. The key is to balance the two and adjust your behavior for what the situation warrants. What stood out to me is that she shared that when most people get "stuck" in their career progression, they often lean toward the power behaviors, thinking that will demonstrate their leadership abilities. But in reality, it is usually the attractive behaviors that they need to improve, leadership roles are built on relationships and it is hard to build those without getting along with others and having people like you.

Scary scam message I got this weekend

Scammers are becoming so tricky, I'm good about catching stuff on email, but I wasn't expecting to get a devious WhatsApp message. What looked like my previous CMO sent me a message asking for my local teammate's phone number. It made sense at first glance, maybe they weren't responding to email or IM on the weekend, I never messaged the CMO through WhatsApp before, so being an unsaved number was normal, I almost just sent the number right away. Luckily I reached out to the teammate first, not because I thought it was fishy, but just to give them a heads-up and see if they were okay with me sharing their mobile number. Fortunately, they were more savvy than me and double-checked the number, which didn't match up. The fake WhatsApp account was the correct country code, name, and photo (from LinkedIn). They asked for my teammate by their first name and addressed me correctly by my first name. I could have easily gotten scammed or helped them try to scam my teammate. Be careful out there!

That's all for this week, next week I'm looking forward to settling into the new place and getting back into the swing of things at work after being sick, traveling, and moving (and being sick a second time). Have a great rest of your weekend!

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